~ sweet&sour + bitter&spicy~

沒那麼簡單 Mei Na Me Jian Dan

2010-02-02T16:58:00.001+08:00

没那么简单就能找到
mei na me jian dan jiu neng zhao dao
聊得来的伴
liao hen lai de ban
尤其是在
you qi shi zai
看过了那么多的背叛
kan guo le na me duo de bei pan
总是不安
zong shi bu an
只好强悍
zhi hao qiang han
谁谋杀了我的浪漫
shei mou sha le wo de lang man

没那么简单
mei na me jian dan
就能去爱
jiu neng qu ai
别的全不看
bie de quan bu kan
变得实际
bian de shi ji
也许好也许坏各一半
ye xu hao ye xu huai ge yi ban
不爱孤单一久也习惯
bu ai gu dan yi jiu ye xi guan
不用担心谁
bu yong dan xin shei
也不用被谁管
ye bu yong bei shei guan

感觉快乐就忙东忙西
gan jue kuai le jiu mang dong mang xi
感觉累了就放空自己
gan jue lei le jiu fang kong zi ji
别人说的话随便听一听
bie ren shuo de hua sui bian ting yi ting
自己作决定
zi ji zuo jue ding
不想拥有太多情绪
bu xiang yong you tai duo qing xu
一杯红酒配电影
yi bei hong jiu pei dian ying
在周末晚上关上了手机
zai zhou mo wan shang guan shang le shou ji
舒服窝在沙发里
shu fu wo zai sha fa li

Chorus:
相爱没有那么容易
xiang ai mei you na me rong yi
每个人有他的脾气
mei ge ren you ta de pi qi
过了爱作梦的年纪
guo le ai zuo meng de nian ji
轰轰烈烈不如平静
hong hong lie lie bu ru ping jing
幸福没有那么容易
xing fu mei you na me rong yi
才会特别让人着迷
cai hui te bie rang ren zhao mi
什么都不懂的年纪
shen me dou bu dong de nian ji
曾经最掏心所以最开心曾经
ceng jing zui tao xin suo yi zui kai xin ceng jing

没那么简单就能去爱
mei na me jian dan jiu neng qu ai
别的全不看
bie de quan bu kan
变得实际也许好也许坏各一半
bian de shi ji ye xu hao ye xu huai ge yi ban

不爱孤单一久也习惯
bu ai gu dan yi jiu ye xi guan
不用担心谁
bu yong dan xin shei
也不用被谁管
ye bu yong bei shei guan

感觉快乐就忙东忙西
gan jue kuai le jiu mang dong mang xi
感觉累了就放空自己
gan jue lei le jiu fang kong zi ji
别人说的话
bie ren shuo de hua
随便听一听自己作决定
sui bian ting yi ting zi ji zuo jue ding
不想拥有太多情绪
bu xiang yong you tai duo qing xu
一杯红酒配电影
yi bei hong jiu pei dian ying
在周末晚上关上了手机
zai zhou mo wan shang guan shang le shou ji
舒服窝在沙发里
shu fu wo zai sha fa li

Repeat Chorus X2

想念最伤心
xiang nian zui shang xin
但却最动心的记忆
dan que zui dong xin de ji yi

暗示 An Shi

2009-12-22T16:48:00.002+08:00

听见星星叹息　
ting jian xing xing tan xi
用寂寞的语气
yong ji mo de yu qi
告诉不眠的云
gao su bu mian de yun
是否放弃日夜
shi fou fang qi ri ye
追寻风的动静
zhui xun feng de dong jing

心事不停累积　
xin shi bu ting lei ji
变成脸颊的泪滴
bian cheng lian jia de lei di
你始终没留意　
ni shi zhong mei liu yi
我特别在乎你
wo te bie zai hu ni
你却像风一样　
ni que xiang feng yi yang
左顾右盼而行
zuo gu you pan er xing

Chorus
全世界只有你　
quan shi jie zhi you ni
不懂我爱你
bu dong wo ai ni
我给的不只是　
wo gei de bu zhi shi
好朋友而已
hao peng you er yi
每个欲言又止　
mei ge yu yan you zhi
浅浅笑容里
qian qian xiao rong li
难道你没发现　
nan dao ni mei fa xian
我渴望讯息
wo ke wang xun xi

我应该如何让你　
wo ying gai ru he rang ni
知道我爱你
zhi dao wo ai ni
连星星都知道　
lian xing xing dou zhi dao
我心中秘密
wo xin zhong mi mi
今夜在你窗前下的
jin ye zai ni chuang qian xia de
一场雨
yi chang yu
是我暗示　
shi wo an shi
你我有多么委屈
ni wo you duo me wei qu

心事不停累积　
xin shi bu ting lei ji
变成脸颊的泪滴
bian cheng lian jia de lei di
你始终没留意　
ni shi zhong mei liu yi
我特别在乎你
wo te bie zai hu ni
你却像风一样　
ni que xiang feng yi yang
左顾右盼而行
zuo gu you pan er xing

Repeat chorus

你还不懂　雨永远不会停
ni huan bu dong yu yong yuan bu hui ting

遗憾 Regrets

2009-12-14T13:06:00.004+08:00

别再说是谁的错
bie zai shuo shi shei de cuo
Please do not tell who's fault

让一切成灰
rang yi qie cheng hui
Let all become the ashes

除非放下心中的负累
chu fei fang xia xin zhong de fu lei
Unless the heart lay down their burden

一切难以挽回
yi qie nan yi wan hui
It's very difficult to restore

你总爱让往事跟随
ni zong ai rang wang shi gen sui
You love to make memories to follow

怕过去白费
pa guo qu bai fei
Fear of the past, in vain

你总以为要体会人生
ni zong yi wei yao ti hui ren sheng
You always think that you should experience in life

就要多爱几回
jiu yao duo ai ji hui
I would not love several times

与其让你在我怀中枯萎
yu qi rang ni zai wo huai zhong ku wei
Instead of letting you wither in my arms

宁愿你犯错后悔
ning yuan ni fan cuo hou hui
Would rather you make mistakes regret

让你飞向梦中的世界
rang ni fei xiang meng zhong de shi jie
Allows you to fly to the dream of the world

留我独自伤悲
liu wo du zi shang bei
Leave me alone heartbroken

与其让你在我爱中憔悴
yu qi rang ni zai wo ai zhong qiao cui
Instead of letting you in my love emaciated

宁愿你受伤流泪
ning yuan ni shou shang liu lei
Would rather you were injured in tears

我非要你尝尽了苦悲
wo fei yao ni chang jin le ku bei
I insist you have long suffered from the bitter grief

才懂真情可贵
cai dong zhen qing ke gui
It valuable to understand the truth

新不了情

2009-11-12T10:32:00.006+08:00

心若倦了,
xin ruo juan le
If your heart is weary,

泪也乾了,
lei ye gan le
And your tears are all dried up.

这份心情,
zhe fen xin qing
This feeling,

难舍难了。
nan she nan liao
Is hard to relinquish or forget.

曾经拥有,
ceng jing yong you
I once used to have,

天荒地老,
tian huang di lao
All the time in the world.

已不见你,
yi bu jian ni
But I haven’t seen you,

暮暮与朝朝。
mu mu yu chao chao
For many nights and many days.

这一份情,
zhe yi fen qing
This love,

永远难了,
yong yuan nan liao
Is forever difficult to resolve.

愿来生还能,
yuan lai sheng hai neng
I hope in our afterlife,

再度拥抱。
zai du yong bao
We can embrace again.

爱一个人,
ai yi ge ren
Loving someone,

如何斯守到老,
ru he si shou dao lao
How do you remain faithful till you’re old?

怎样面对一切,
zen yang mian dui yi qie
How do you face everything,

我不知道。
wo bu zhi dao
I do not know.

回忆过去,
hui yi guo qu
Reviewing the past,

痛苦的相思忘不了,
tong ku de si xiang wang bu liao
The painful memories are unforgettable.

为何你还来,
wei he ni hai lao
Why do you come then,

拨动我心跳。
bo dong wo xin tiao
To make my heart race.

爱你怎么能了,
ai ni zen me neng liao
How is it possible to stop loving you?

今夜的你应该明了,
jin ye de ni ying gai ming liao
Tonight, you should understand,

缘难了情难了。
yuan nan liao qing nan liao.
It is difficult to escape fate, just as it is difficult to dissolve love

* this song means that...you are still unable to let go of the past... and that person you loved before is still in your heart...

NINE WORDS WOMEN USE

2009-08-03T15:19:00.000+08:00

A lil' sharing from Yin.. haha~ XD

(1) Fine: This is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

(2) Five Minutes: If she is getting dressed, this means a half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given five more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

(3) Nothing: This is the calm before the storm. This means something, and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with nothing usually end in fine.

(4) Go Ahead: This is a dare, not permission. Don't Do It!

(5) Loud Sigh: This is actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A loud sigh means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you about nothing. (Refer back to # 3 for the meaning of nothing.)

(6) That's Okay: This is one of the most dangerous statements a women can make to a man. That's okay means she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

(7) Thanks: A woman is thanking you, do not question, or faint. Just say you're welcome. (I want to add in a clause here - This is true, unless she says 'Thanks a lot' - that is PURE sarcasm and she is not thanking you at all. DO NOT say 'you're welcome' . That will bring on a 'whatever').

(8) Whatever: Is a woman's way of saying F-- YOU!

(9) Don't worry about it, I got it: Another dangerous statement, meaning this is something that a woman has told a man to do several times, but is now doing it herself. This will later result in a man asking 'What's wrong?' For the woman's response refer to # 3.

Let's Start From Here

2009-07-23T14:02:00.000+08:00

By Joanna Wang...

Giving up, why should i
I`ve come too far to forget
We`re beautiful, we just got lost
Somewhere along the way
So much was missing when you went away

Let`s start from here, lose the past
Change our minds, we don?t need a finish line
Let`s take this chance don`t think too deep
Of all those promises we couldn?t seem to keep
I don`t care where we go
Let`s start from here

Standing here face to face
A finger on your lips
Don`t say a word don`t make a sound
Silence surrounds us now
Even when you were gone i felt you everywhere
Let` start from here, lose the past
Change our minds, we don?t need a finish line
Let`s take this chance don`t think too deep
Of all those promises we couldn?t seem to keep
I don`t care where we go
Let`s start from here
Let`s start from here

I`ve never been the one to open up
But you`ve always been the voive within
The only warmth from my cold heart
Let`s start from here, lose the past
Change our minds, we don`t need a finish line
Let`s take this chance don`t think too deep
Of all those promises
Let`s start from here, lose the past
Change our minds, we don`t need a finish line
Let`s take this chance don`t think too deep
Of all those promises we couldn`t seem to keep
I don`t care where we go
Let`s start from here
Let`s start from here
Let`s start from here
Let`s start from here

對的人

2009-07-22T16:51:00.000+08:00

你問在我心中是否還苦惱
ni wen zai wo xin zhong shi fou hai ku nao
You ask my heart if it's still distress

那次受傷否決了愛的好
na ci shou shang fou jue le ai de hao
That time (when I) was hurt, (I've) overrule the good in love

謝謝你的關照我一切都好
xie xie ni de guan zhao wo yi qie dou hao
Thank you for your concern, everything is fine

一個人不算困擾
yi ge ren bu suan kun rao
It's not complicated to be alone

＊愛雖然很美妙卻不能為了寂寞
ai sui ran hen mei miao que bu neng wei le ji mo
Although love is very beautiful, but cannot because of loneliness

又陷了泥沼
you xian le ni zhao
(You) can't fall in a swamp again

＃愛要耐心等待仔細尋找感覺很重要
ai yao nai xin deng dai zi xi xun zhao gan jue hen zhong yao
(You) need to wait patiently, (and) look attentively for love as feeling is very important

寧可空白了手等候一次真心的擁抱
ning ke kong bao le shou deng hou yi ci zhen xin de yong bao
(I'd) rather be empty-handed, (and) wait next time for a real embrace

我相信在〔這個〕世界上一定會遇到
wo xiang xin zai zhe ge shi jie shang yi ding hui yu dao
I believe that in this world, (I) will meet

對的人出現〔在眼角〕
dui de ren chu xian zai yan jiao
The right person appearing (in the corner of my eye)

那次流過的淚讓我學習到
na ci liu guo de lei rang wo xue xi dao
That time when I cried, it let me learn

如何祝福如何轉身不要
ru he zhu fu ru he zhuan shen bu yao
How to give a blessing, (and) how to not turn around

在眼淚體會到與自己擁抱
zai yan lei ti hui dao yu zi ji yong bao
In (my) tears (I) experience , embracing myself

愛不是一種需要是一種對照
ai bu shi yi zhong xu yao shi yi zhong dui zhao
Love is not an essential, it's a kind of comparison

＊, ＃

能願意為了一份愛付出去多少
neng yuan yi wei le yi fen ai fu chu qu duo shao
How much are you willing to put out for love?

然後得到多少並不計較
ran hou de dao duo shao bing bu ji jiao
(And will you) not hold a grudge and how much (you'll) get in return?

當我想清楚了時候我就算已經準備好
dang wo xiang qing chu le shi hou wo jiu suan yi jing zhun bei hao
When I've thought clearly, I'm already ready

放手去愛海闊天高
fang shou chu ai hai kuo tian gao
to let go and love boundlessly

＃, ＃

走火入魔

2009-06-24T16:05:00.000+08:00

对不起刚才我是不是听错
Dui bu qi gang cai wo shi bu shi ting cuo

还是我想太多想到了昏头
hai shi wo xiang tai duo xiang dao le hun tou

天气不错开了窗吹走脸红
tian qi bu cuo kai le chuang qui zhou lian hong

进一步退一步都害怕打破
jing yi bu tui yi bu dou hai pa da puo

更不想在原地永远作朋友
gen bu xiang zai yuan di yong yuan zuo peng you

给你线索也给我勇敢藉口
gei ni xian shuo ye gei wo yong gan jie kou

下定决心沉默
xia ding jue xin cheng muo

就让沉默为我们追究
jiu rang cheng muo wei wo men zui jiu

你和我这一刻无声的
ni he wo zhe yi ke wu shen de

耳语交流却突然震耳欲聋
er yu jiao liu que tu ran zhen er yu long

一字一句一瞬间走了火
yi zhi yi ju yi shun jian zhou le huo

一天一点一转眼入了魔
yi tian yi dian yi zuan yan ru le mo

忘了我从什麼时候
wang le wo chong shen me shi hou

忘了你为什麼能够让我
wang le ni wei shen me neng gou rang wo

一步一步走火入魔和我
yi bu yi bu zhou huo ru mo he wo

一直猜一直想一直的揣摩
yi zhe cai yi zhe xiang yi zhe de chuai mo

一直到你变成甜蜜的心痛
yu zhe dao ni bian cheng tian mi de xin tong

如果可以把如果变成结果
ru guo ke yi ba ru guo bian cheng jie guo

下定决心执著
xia ding jue xin zhe zuo

就让执著为我们突破
jiu rang zhe zuo wei wo men tu puo

我和你的小说这时候
wo he ni de xiao shuo zhe shi jian

出现烟火让心间充满感动
chu xian yan huo rang xin jian chong man gan dong

一字一句一瞬间走了火
yi zhe yi ju yi shun jian zhou le huo

一天一点一转眼入了魔
yi tian yi dian yi zuan yan ru le mo

如果你有相同感受
ru guo ni you xiang tong gan shou

感受到有种突然的冲动
gan shou dao you zhong tu ran de chong dong

放肆一次走火入魔
fang si yi chi, zhou huo ru mo

和我
he wo

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

2009-06-08T13:58:00.001+08:00

Your Heart Takes Love Seriously

You are attracted to those who have a split personality - cold as ice on the outside but hot as fire in the heart.

In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored.

You'd like to your lover to think you are optimistic and happy.

You would be forced to break up with someone who was ruthless, cold-blooded, and sarcastic.

Your ideal relationship is comforting. You crave a relationship where you always feel warmth and love.

Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.

You think of marriage pessimistically. You don't think happy marriages exist anymore.

In this moment, you think of love as commitment. Love only works when both people are totally devoted.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

A Cinderella Story...Happily Ever After

2009-04-27T12:32:00.000+08:00

Woo!! I Love this photo!! My best shot...haha! XD

Just like the Cinderella Story...

The Prince & Princess...

Happily Everafter...

Come Back To Me

2009-04-21T12:15:00.000+08:00

The rain falls on my windows
And the coldness runs through my soul
And the rain falls, oh the rain falls
I don't want to be alone
I wish that I could photoshop
All our bad memories
Cuz the flashbacks, oh the flashbacks
Won't leave me alone

If you come back to me
I'll be all that you need
Baby come back to me
Let me make up for what happened in the past

Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)

Lower East Side of Manhattan
She goes shopping for new clothes
And she buys this and she buys that
Just leave her alone
I wish that he would listen to her side of the story
It isn't that bad, it isn't that bad
And she's wiser for it now

I admit I cheated
Don't know why I did it
But I do regret it
Nothing I can do or say can change the past

Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)

Everything I ever did
Heaven knows I'm sorry babe
I was too young to see
You were always there for me
And my curiosity got the better of me
Baby take it easy on me

Anything from A to Z
Call me what you wanna babe
I open my heart to thee
You are my priority
Can't you see you've punished me
More than enough already
Baby take it easy on me

Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)

Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
Boy you're one in a million
Baby come back to me
I'll be everything you need
Baby come back to me
You're one in a million (One in a million)

*by Utada Hikaru

Are You A Good Cook?

2009-04-14T18:56:00.000+08:00

You Are an Excellent Cook

You're a top cook, but you weren't born that way. It's taken a lot of practice, a lot of experimenting, and a lot of learning.

It's likely that you have what it takes to be a top chef, should you have the desire...

Are You A Good Cook?

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

2009-04-10T14:22:00.000+08:00

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, "How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?"
In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love... Because it's happening TO YOU .

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU .

Falling in love is easy . It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship . Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies , instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?"
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages breakdown . People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression "the labor of love." Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make"love .

Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always :

"God determines who walks into your life.
It is up to you to decide who you let walk away,
who you let stay, and
who you refuse to let go"

*something meaningful... =D

My Heart's Feeling...

2009-04-07T21:06:00.000+08:00

Your Heart is Feeling Safe

Right now, all is good with your heart. And you intend on keeping it that way.

Whether you're deeply in love or just looking, you know that your heart will be taken care of.

You never risk your heart too much, but you don't hold it back either. You know who to trust your heart with.

Deep down, your heart is susceptible to: Getting a little too comfortable

Your current outlook on love: Calm and future oriented

Your love life will improve if you: Treat other people's hearts the way you expect yours to be treated

Watch out for: Taking the people you're dating for granted

What Is Your Heart Feeling?

Correct Way of Cooking Instant Noodles

2008-12-25T12:50:00.000+08:00

The correct way to cook instant noodles without harming our bodies and health. `Normally, how we cook the instant noodles is to put the noodles into a pot with water, throw in the powder and let it cook for around 3 minutes and then it's ready to eat.

This is the WRONG method of cooking the instant noodles.

By doing this, when we actually boil the ingredients in the powder, normally with MSG, it will change the molecular structures of the MSG causing it to be toxic.

The other thing that you may or may not realize is that, the noodles are coated with wax and it will take around 4 to 5 days for the body to excrete the wax after you have taken the noodles.

CORRECT METHOD :

1. boil the noodles in a pot with water.
2. once the noodles is cooked, take out the noodles, and throw away the water which contains wax.
3. boil another pot of water till boiling and put the noodles into the hot boiling water and then shut the fire.
4. only at this stage when the fire is off, and while the water is very hot, put the ingredient with the powder into the water, to make noodle soup.
5. however, if you need dry noodles, take out the noodles and add the ingredient with the powder and toss it to get dry noodles.

Please share this info and help save a life.

你不是真正的快乐-ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le

2008-11-30T02:08:00.001+08:00

By Mayday

中哭着你只想变成透明的颜色
ren qun zhong ku zhe ni zhi xiang bian cheng tou ming de yan se
Crying in the crowd, you just want to be a transparent colour

你再也不会梦或痛或心动了
ni zai ye bu hui meng huo tong huo xin dong le
You won’t ever dream or hurt or be touched anymore

你已经决定了你已经决定了
ni yi jing jue ding le ni yi jing jue ding le
You’ve already decided, you’ve already decided

你静静忍着紧紧把昨天在拳心握着
ni jing jing ren zhe jin jin ba zuo tian zai quan xin wo zhe
You quietly endure, tightly grasp yesterday in your fist

回忆越是甜就是越伤人
er hui yi yue shi tian jiu shi yue shang ren
but the sweeter the memory, the more damage it will cause

越是在手心留下密密麻麻深深切切淡掉了
yue shi zai shou xin liu xia mi mi ma ma shen shen qie qie dan diao le
And remain in your hand, the thick numbing deep close feeling wears off

你不是真正的快乐你的笑只是你穿的保护色
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de xiao zhi shi ni chuan de bao hu se
You’re not genuinely happy, your smile is just the protective colour that you’re wearing

你决定不恨了也决定不爱了
ni jue ding bu hen le ye jue ding bu ai le
You’ve decided not to hate, and decided not to love

把你的灵魂挂在永远锁上的躯壳
ba ni de ling hun gua zai yong yuan suo shang de qu ke
And leave your soul hanging to your forever locked up body

这世界笑了于是你合群的一起笑了
zhe shi jie xiao le yu shi ni he qun de yi qi xiao le
This world smiled, and so you smiled together

当生存是规则不是你的选择
dang sheng cun shi gui ze bu shi ni de xuan ze
Pretended that living is a rule, not your choice

于是你含着眼泪飘飘荡荡跌跌撞撞地走着
yu shi ni han zhe yan lei piao piao dang dang die die zhuang zhuang de zou zhe
And so you hold your tears, floating and stumbling to continue your life

你不是真正的快乐你的笑只是你穿的保护色
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de xiao zhi shi ni chuan de bao hu se
You’re not genuinely happy, your smile is just the protective colour that you’re wearing

你决定不恨了也决定不爱了
ni jue ding bu hen le ye jue ding bu ai le
You have decided not to hate, and decided not to love

把你的灵魂挂在永远锁上的躯壳
ba ni de ling hun gua zai yong yuan suo shang de qu ke
And leave your soul hanging to your forever locked up body

你不是真正的快乐你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de shang cong bu ken wan quan de yu he
You’re not genuinely happy, your wound never want to heal completely

我站在你左侧却像隔着银河
wo zhan zai ni zuo ce que xiang ge zhe yin he
I stood on your left, but it seems like the Milky Way is between us

难道就真的抱着遗憾一直到老了然后再后悔着
nan dao jiu zhen de bao zhe yi han yi zhi dao lao le ran hou zai hou hui zhe
Don’t tell me that we’ll have to carry our guilt until old, and then to remorse again

你不是真正的快乐你的笑只是你穿的保护色
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de xiao zhi shi ni chuan de bao hu se
You’re not genuinely happy, your smile is just the protective colour that you’re wearing

你决定不恨了也决定不爱了
ni jue ding bu hen le ye jue ding bu ai le
You have decided not to hate, and decided not to love

把你的灵魂挂在永远锁上的躯壳
ba ni de ling hun gua zai yong yuan suo shang de qu ke
And leave your soul hanging to your forever locked up body

你不是真正的快乐你的伤从不肯完全的愈合
ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le ni de shang cong bu ken wang quan de yu he
You’re not genuinely happy, your wound never want to heal completely

我站在你左侧却像隔着银河
wo zhan zai ni zuo ce que xiang ge zhe yin he
I stood on your left, but it seems like the Milky Way is between us

难道就真的抱着遗憾一直到老了
nan dao jiu zhen de bao zhe yi han yi zhi dao lao le
Don’t tell me that we’ll have to carry our guilt until old

你知道真正的快乐你应该脱下你穿的保护色
ni zhi dao zhen zheng de kuai le ni ying gai tuo xia ni chuan de bao hu se
You knew the genuine happiness, you should take off the protective colour that you’re wearing

为什么失去了还要被惩罚呢
wei shen me she qu le hai yao bei cheng fa ne
Why must I being punished even though I’ve lost you?

能不能就让配角全部结束在此刻
neng bu neng jiu rang pei jiao quan bu jie shu zai ci ke
Can you stop all the supporting roles at this moment

重新开始活着
chong xing kai shi huo zhe
And start living all over again

爱在不在

2008-11-23T03:25:00.000+08:00

by Debbie Lim

思念它一直都不肯离开
夹着那些治不好的伤害
一边看你爱护我伤害我
像还不懂事的小孩

应该哭着还是笑着放开
我彻底被你打败
我已不懂好与坏黑与白
爱到底是不是存在

我学着你口吻重复以前的字句
自导自演的悲剧
你走了我还继续

每一天同时间都有那一场大雨
发烧怎么能痊愈
催眠我用破碎的甜蜜

oh 爱最后它是一种出卖
最后都失去了期待
所以爱消失得会那么快

oh 爱舍不得你完美姿态
我相信你说的未来
我们的爱到底
回得来回不来在不在
拥抱了又被推开
收藏到网摘

*coming up with Pin Yin soon...

A Song Per Day

2008-11-18T20:19:00.000+08:00

Every time when i'm thinking of you
I just don't know what to do
Pinch myself when i'm dreaming of you,
Making sure that you could love me too
How it slipped away, all my happy days.

Though i'm acting cool, when i'm feeling blue,
Just to show you that i'm true with you,
while i never want it too.

How can the love so beautiful ever slip away,
When i get to the place,
I swear i'll write you a song each in everyday,
Oh, god i'm missing you is driving me so insane,
Standing all alone in pouring rain,
Can't explain can't explain all my pain

What is Your Love Language ?

2008-10-16T20:53:00.000+08:00

My Score

Words of Affirmation (6)
Quality Time (10)
Receiving of Gifts (4)
Acts of Service (3)
Physical Touch (7)

Having a clear picture of your primary & secondary love languages will explain much of your past behavior Think backover the past and ask yourself "What have I most often requested from significant others?" Chances are your answerwill lie within the scope of your primary & secondary love languages. You have been requesting that which would meetyour deepest need for emotional love.

Here's the link : http://www.greaterquest.com/LoveLanguages.asp

The Law of the Seed.. Choo's version =P

2008-10-15T15:31:00.000+08:00

Suddenly got the urge to post this message and edit it abit...hehe...
Hope that this can "enlighten" some of us..hehe...
Have a nice day...

Okay...we'll take an apple tree as an example...
There might be five hundred apples on the tree and each apple has ten seeds.
500 X 10 = 5000 Seeds! That's a lot of seeds!

Some might ask,
"Why would you need so many seeds to grow just a few more apple trees? 5000 seeds can grows to 5000 apple trees!"

BUT Nature has something to teach us here... It's telling us:

“Not all seeds grow. In life, most seeds never grow... maybe out of 5000 seeds...only 10% of it can grow into apple trees...”

So if you really want to make something happen, you had better try more than once...
same as when a baby learning how to walk...when they fell down...they'll never give up..they stand up and continue to walk again!
We should never give up so easily..and always remember to give yourself more than ONE option....

This might mean:

You'll attend twenty interviews just to get one job.
You'll interview fourty people just to find one good employee.
And you might meet a hundred acquaintances just to find one special friend.

When we understand the "Law of the Seed", we don't get so disappointed.
We stop feeling like victims as we learn how to deal with things that happen to us.
Laws of nature are not things to take personally...we just need to understand them and work with them.

When things are beyond your control, here's something that you must NOT DO so as to avoid misery in your life:
You must not decide how you think the world SHOULD be...(as you are not GOD..even GOD also will give us OPTIONS!)
You must not make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave. (note that everyone has their rights! =P)
Then, when the world doesn't obey your rules, you get angry!What the heck... this is only what a miserable people do!

Here...hmm...let's say you expect that:
Friends SHOULD return favours.
People SHOULD appreciate you.
Planes SHOULD arrive on time.
Everyone SHOULD be honest.
These expectations might sound reasonable. But very often, these things won't happen!
So you will end up frustrated and disappointed... Why should we end up like this?
Hmm....

There's always a better strategy...
Demand less, and instead, have preferences!
Do not always stick to one option!
For things that are beyond your control, tell yourself:
"I would prefer this, but if that happens, it’s OK too!"
This is really a change in mindset. It is a shift in attitude, and it gives you more peace of mind ...
For example...you prefer that people are polite ... but when they are rude, it doesn't ruin your day...
Or you prefer sunshine ... but if it rains, it is ok too right!

To become happier, we either need to:
a) Change the world, OR
b) Change our thinking...
BUT most of time it is easier to change our Thinking!
To change the world?? HAHA! Do it in your dreams perhaps.. =P

IN A NUTSHELL
It is not the problem that is the issue, but rather it is your attitude attending to the problem that is the problem.
It's not what happens to you that determines your happiness...It's how you think about what happens to you!

是否- Whether

2008-10-06T22:10:00.000+08:00

是否這次我將真的離開你
shi fou zhe ci wo jiang zhen de li kai ni

是否這次我將不再哭
shi fou zhe ci wo jiang bu zai ku

是否這次我將一去不回頭
shi fou zhe ci wo jiang yi qu bu hui dou

走向那條漫漫永無止境的路
zou xiang nei tiao man man yong wu zhi jing de lu

是否這次我已真的離開你
shi fou zhe ci wo yi zhen de li kai ni

是否淚水已乾不再流
shi fou lei shui yi qian bu zai liu

是否應驗了我曾說的那句話
shi fou ying yan le wo ceng shuo de nei ju hua

情到深處人孤獨
qing dao shen chu ren gu du

多少次的寂寞掙扎在心頭
duo shao ci de ji mo zheng zha zai xin tou

只為挽回我將遠去的腳步
zhi wei wan hui wo jiang yuan qu de jiao bu

多少次我忍住胸口的略
duo shao ci wo ren zhu xiong kou de lue

只是為了告訴我自己我不在乎
zhi shi wei le gao su wo zi ji wo bu zai hu

是否這次我已真的離開你
shi fou zhe ci wo yi zhen de li kai ni

是否春水不再向東流
shi fou chun shui bu zai xiang dong liu

是否應驗了我曾說的那句話
shi fou ying yan le wo ceng shuo de nei ju hua

情到深處人孤獨
qing dao shen chu ren gu du

圍牆 - Wei Qiang -Wall

2008-09-19T10:30:00.002+08:00

By Nicky...

A very nice song that represents our feelings...

不知不觉又过了几天　我想我习惯了忽略　去忽略没你的时间
bu zhi bu jue you guo le ji tian　wo xiang wo xi guan le hu lve　qu hu lve mei ni de shi jian

不近不远走在谁身边　我想我适应了一切　这一切没你的世界
bu jin bu yuan zou zai shui shen bian　wo xiang wo gua ying le yi qie　zhe yi qie mei ni de shi jie

某条路某条街　某首歌某间店　某种熟悉但如今却刺眼
mou tiao lu mou tiao jie　mou shou ge mou jian dian　mou chong shou xi dan ru jin que ci yan

不碰触不跨越　为自己留一些　安全界线
bu peng hong bu kua yue　wei zi ji liu yi xie　an quan jie xian

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉　一转身　才发现
shui du yi wei bu ting bu kan ye jiu mei gan jue　yi zhuan shen　cai fa xian

空气里面　依旧飘散着记忆的气味
kong qi li mian　yi jiu piao san zhao ji yi de qi wei

是有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
shi you suo wei huo wu suo wei ye bu neng gai bian

原来是我　在爱上你的那瞬间　就困在围墙里面
yuan lai shi wo　zai ai shang ni de na shun jian　jiu kun zai wei qiang li mian

某条路某条街　某首歌首间店　某种熟悉但如今却刺眼
mou tiao lu mou tiao jie　mou shou ge shou jian dian　mou chong shou xi dan ru jin que ci yan

不碰触不跨越　为自己留一些安全界限
bu peng hong bu kua yue　wei zi ji liu yi xie an quan jie xian

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉　一转身　才发现
shui du yi wei bu ting bu kan ye jiu mei gan jue　yi zhuan shen　cai fa xian

空气里面　依旧飘散着记忆的气味
kong qi li mian　yi jiu piao san zhao ji yi de qi wei

是有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
shi you suo wei huo wu suo wei ye bu neng gai bian

原来是我　在爱上你的那瞬间　就困在围墙里面
yuan lai shi wo　zai ai shang ni de na shun jian　jiu kun zai wei qiang li mian

谁都以为不听不看也就没感觉　一转身　才发现
shui du yi wei bu ting bu kan ye jiu mei gan jue　yi zhuan shen　cai fa xian

空气里面　依旧飘散着记忆的气味
kong qi li mian　yi jiu piao san zhao ji yi de qi wei

是有所谓或无所谓也不能改变
shi you suo wei huo wu suo wei ye bu neng gai bian

原来是我　在爱上你的那瞬间　就困在围墙里面
yuan lai shi wo　zai ai shang ni de na shun jian　jiu kun zai wei qiang li mian

多可悲　围墙都在对不对
duo ke bei　wei qiang du zai dui bu dui

Can I Borrow $25?

2008-09-04T17:29:00.000+08:00

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'

DAD: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.

SON: 'Daddy, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the man said angrily.

SON: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?'

DAD: 'If you must know, I make $50 an hour.'

SON: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.

SON: 'Daddy, may I please borrow $25?'

The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I don't work hard everyday for such childish frivolities.'

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.

The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?

After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down , and started to
think:

Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that $25.00 and he really didn't ask for money very often The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.

'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.

'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.

'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the man.
'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the
$25 you asked for.'

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' he yelled. Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.

The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again.

The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.

'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.

'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.

'Daddy, I have $50 now. Can I buy an hour of your time? Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to

have dinner with you.'

The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts. Do remember to share that $50 worth of your time with someone you love.

If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of hours. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives.

祝我生日快乐

2008-08-29T16:23:00.000+08:00

我知道伤心不能改变什么
Wo zhi dao shang xin bu neng gai bian shen me
I know that sadness will not be able to change anything

那么让我诚实一点
Na me rang wo cheng shi yi dian
If that's the case, then let me be honest a little bit

诚实难免有不能控制的宣泄
Cheng shi nan mian you bu neng kong zhi de xuan xie
To be honest that's it's difficult to avoid an unruly betrayal

只有关上了门不必理谁
Zhi you guan shang le men bu bi li shei
I can only close the door and ignore the world

一个人坐在空的包厢里面
Yi ge ren zuo zai kong de bao xiang li mian
Sitting alone inside this empty space

手机让它休息一夜
Shou ji rang ta xiu xi yi ye
Let the cellphone rest for a night

难,想切割切掉回忆的画面
Nan, xiang qie ge qie diao hui yi de hua mian
[So] Difficult, [I feel like] cutting off all the frames of memory

眼泪不能流过十二点
Yan lei bu neng liu guo shi er dian
These tears can no longer shed past Midnight

生日快乐我对自己说
Sheng ri kuai le wo dui zi ji shuo
Happy birthday, I said to myself

蜡烛点了
La zhu dian le
[As] The candles are blown

寂寞亮了
Ji mo liang le
Loneliness lit up

生日快乐
Sheng ri kuai le
Happy birthday

泪也融了
Lei ye rong le
Tears are melted away

我要谢谢你给的你拿走的一切
Wo yao xia xia ni gei de ni na zou de yi qie
I want to thank for all that you gave and took away

还爱你带一点恨
Hai ai ni dai yi dian hen
Having to love you still, carries a little hate

还要时间
Hai yao shi jian
Only time

才能平衡
Cai neng ping heng
Can heal the wound

热恋伤痕
Re lian shang hen
Passionate love leaves painful traces

画面重生
Hua mian chong sheng
As the picture replays

祝我生日快乐
Zhu wo sheng ri kuai le
Wish me a happy birthday

Can't Help Falling In Love

2008-08-24T22:26:00.000+08:00

*woo...my all time favourite...*

Wise men say only fools rush in
But I cant help falling in love with you
Shall I stay
Would it be a sin
If I cant help falling in love with you

Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand, take my whole life too
For I cant help falling in love with you

Like a river flows surely to the sea
Darling so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand, take my whole life too
For I cant help falling in love with you
For I cant help falling in love with you

擦肩而過 | Ca Jian Er Guo | A Brief Encounter

2008-08-09T21:36:00.000+08:00

我愛著誰　愛到我有點醉
wo ai zhe shei ai dao wo you dian zhui
I've loved someone, loved until I was a little drunk

告訴我你是誰　能夠把我讓我變不對
gao su wo ni shi shei neng gou ba wo rang wo bian bu dui
Tell me who you are, to be able to make me become so unusual

你不會累　但我卻愛你愛到好累
ni bu hui lei dan wo que ai ni ai dao hao lei
You're not tired, yet I've loved you to the point of exhaustion

從沒有為了誰　不顧安危付出一切
cong mei you wei le shei bu gu an wei fu chu yi qie
I've never risked my own safety and sacrificed my all for anybody

站在這平衡點　我還是覺得有點危險
zhan zai zhe ping heng dian wo hai shi jue de you dian wei xian
I'm standing at the equilibrium point, but I still feel it's a little dangerous

或許是看不見　只能夠靠感覺
huo xu shi kan bu jian, zhi neng gou kao gan jue
Maybe it's because I can't see and can only use my intuition/feelings

他不會是個好男人　也不會是個好情人
ta bu hui shi ge hao nan ren, ye bu hui shi ge hao qing ren
He's not a good man, and is not a good lover either

你對我說　我們只是擦肩而過
ni dui wo shuo, wo men zhi shi ca jian er guo
To me, we are just two people who had a brief encounter

好的男人有那麼多　少了他的日子也能過
hao de nan ren you na me duo, shao le ta de ri zi ye neng guo
There are so many good men out there; without him, life will still go on

我不會再讓你寂寞　也不會讓你更難過
wo bu hui zai rang ni ji mo, ye bu hui rang ni geng nan guo
I will no longer make you feel lonely, and I won't let you feel more hurt

你聽我說　要好好學著去生活
ni ting wo shuo, yao hao hao xue zhe qu sheng huo
Listen to me, you must learn how to live well

就算未來有多少錯　至少還有我的問候　我的溫柔陪你渡過
jiu suan wei lai you duo shao cuo, zhi shao hai you wo de wen hou, wo de wen rou pei ni du guo
Even if the future has many wrongs, at least you'll have my greeting and my warmth, accompanying you through the days

你聽我說　你不要這麼做
ni ting wo shuo, ni bu yao zhe me zuo
Listen to me, you shouldn't do this

你不要看著我　說你已經知道怎麼做
ni bu yao kan zhe wo shuo ni yi jing zhi dao zen me zuo
Don't look at me and say you already know what you should do

你很難受　我願意陪你一起承受
ni hen nan shou, wo yuan yi pei ni yi qi cheng shou
You feel pain, and I'm willing to bear the pain with you

只要你不怕痛　再多坎坷我都陪你走
zhi yao ni bu pa tong zai duo kan ke wo dou pei ni zou
As long as you're not afraid to get hurt, I'll walk with you no matter how many bumpy roads there are

站在這平衡點　我還是覺得有點危險
zhan zai zhe ping heng dian wo hai shi jue de you dian wei xian
I'm standing at the equilibrium point, but I still feel it's a little dangerous

或許是看不見　只能夠靠感覺
huo xu shi kan bu jian, zhi neng gou kao gan jue
Maybe it's because I can't see and can only use my intuition/feelings

他不會是個好男人　也不會是個好情人
ta bu hui shi ge hao nan ren, ye bu hui shi ge hao qing ren
He's not a good man, and is not a good lover either

你對我說　我們只是擦肩而過
ni dui wo shuo, wo men zhi shi ca jian er guo
To me, we are just two people who had a brief encounter

好的男人有那麼多　少了他的日子也能過
hao de nan ren you na me duo, shao le ta de ri zi ye neng guo
There are so many good men out there; without him, life will still go on

我不會再讓你寂寞　也不會讓你更難過
wo bu hui zai rang ni ji mo, ye bu hui rang ni geng nan guo
I will no longer make you feel lonely, and I won't let you feel more hurt

你聽我說　要好好學著去生活
ni ting wo shuo, yao hao hao xue zhe qu sheng huo
Listen to me, you must learn how to live well

就算未來有多少錯　至少還有我的問候　我的溫柔陪你渡過
jiu suan wei lai you duo shao cuo, zhi shao hai you wo de wen hou, wo de wen rou pei ni du guo
Even if the future has many wrongs, at least you'll have my greeting and my warmth, accompanying you through the days

他不會是個好男人　也不會是個好情人
ta bu hui shi ge hao nan ren, ye bu hui shi ge hao qing ren
He's not a good man, and is not a good lover either

你對我說　我們只是擦肩而過
ni dui wo shuo, wo men zhi shi ca jian er guo
To me, we are just two people who had a brief encounter

好的男人有那麼多　少了他的日子也能過
hao de nan ren you na me duo, shao le ta de ri zi ye neng guo
There are so many good men out there; without him, life will still go on

我不會再讓你寂寞　也不會讓你更難過
wo bu hui zai rang ni ji mo, ye bu hui rang ni geng nan guo
I will no longer make you feel lonely, and I won't let you feel more hurt

你聽我說　要好好學著去生活
ni ting wo shuo, yao hao hao xue zhe qu sheng huo
Listen to me, you must learn how to live well

就算未來有多少錯　至少還有我的問候　我的溫柔陪你渡過
jiu suan wei lai you duo shao cuo, zhi shao hai you wo de wen hou, wo de wen rou pei ni du guo
Even if the future has many wrongs, at least you'll have my greeting and my warmth, accompanying you through the days

温岚-傻瓜 | Sha Gua | Fool

2008-08-04T21:10:00.000+08:00

其实他做的坏事我们都懂
qi shi ta zuo de huai shi wo men dou dong
We all know what bad things he has done

没有什么不同
mei you shen me bu tong
Not much difference

眼光闪烁暧昧流动
yan guang shan shuo ai mei liu dong
Roaming eyes and ambiguous relationships

闭上眼当作听说
bi shang yan dang zuo ting shuo
I close my eyes and pretend they're just hearsay

其实别人的招数我们都懂
qi shi bie ren de zhao shu wo men dou dong
We know too well the tricks of others

没有什么不同
mei you shen me bu tong
Not much difference

故作软弱撒娇害羞
gu zuo ruan ruo sa jiao hai xiu
Pretend to be weak and shy

只是有一点别扭
zhi shi you yi dian bie niu
It's only a little unnatural

傻瓜也许单纯地懂
sha gua ye xu dan chun de dong
Fools are perhaps innocent

爱得没那么做作
ai de mei na me zuo zuo
Their love is not so pretentious

爱上了我不保留
ai shang le wo bu bao liu
When I have fallen in love, I won't hold back

傻瓜我们都一样
sha gua wo men dou yi yang
Fools we are, all the same

被爱情伤了又伤
bei ai qing shang le you shang
Hurt by love time after time

相信这个他不一样
xiang xin zhe ge ta bu yi yang
Believing that this one will be different

却又再一次受伤
que you zai yi ci shou shang
And yet we get hurt once again

傻瓜我们都一样
sha gua wo men dou yi yang
Fools we are, all the same

受了伤却不投降
shou le shang que bu tou xiang
Hurt by love and yet never gave up

相信付出会有代价
xiang xin fu chu hui you dai jia
Believing there will be a reward for our giving

代价只是一句傻瓜
dai jia zhi shi yi ju sha gua
And all it is, to be called a Fool

Tattoo- Jordin Sparks

2008-07-28T14:21:00.000+08:00

Oh, oh, oh

No matter what you say about love
I keep coming back for more
Keep my hand in the fire
Sooner or later, I'll get what I'm asking for

No matter what you say about life
I learn every time I bleed
That truth is a stranger
Soul is in danger, I gotta let my spirit be free

To admit that I'm wrong
And then change my mind
Sorry but I have to move on
And leave you behind

[Chorus]
I can't waste time so give it a moment
I realize, nothing's broken
No need to worry 'bout everything I've done
Live every second like it was my last one
Don't look back at a new direction
I loved you once, needed protection
You're still a part of everything I do
You're on my heart just like a tattoo

(Just like a tattoo, I'll always have you
I'll always have you, I'll always have you)

I'm sick of playing all of these games
It's not about taking sides
When I looked in the mirror, didn't deliver
It hurt enough to think that I could

Stop, admit that I'm wrong
And then change my mind
Sorry but I gotta be strong
And leave you behind

[Chorus]

(Just like a tattoo, I'll always have you
I'll always have you)

[Bridge]
If I live every moment
Won't change any moment
Still a part of me and you
I will never regret you
Still the memory of you
Marks everything i do

[Chorus x2]

Just like a tattoo
I'll always have you

陶喆 - 沙滩

2008-07-22T22:30:00.000+08:00

空无一人这片沙滩
kong wu yi ren zhe pien sha tan
Emptiness, there was nobody on the beach.

风吹过来冷冷海岸
feng chui guo lai leng leng hai an
As the breeze blew onshore from the icy cold sea

我轻轻抖落鞋里的沙看着我的脚印
wo qing qing dou luo xie li de sha kan zhe wo de jiao yin
I shaked off the sand lightly from my shoes.. I saw my footprints left all over the empty beach

oh 一个人一步步好寂寞
oh yi ge ren yi bu bu hao ji mo
There was only one man, walking on the beach leaving all lonely steps all over... It was so lonely.

看海有些绿天有些蓝
kan hai you xie lu tian you xie lan
Looking at the sea that was slightly azure, the sky the was slightly blue.

那段爱情有些遗憾
na duan ai qing you xie yi han
Our love reminded me of slight regretness

想不知不觉游向海天
xiang bu zhi bu jue you xiang hai tian
Feeling like swimming to the deepest place in the sea subconsciously.

到最深的地方才发现你早已经放弃我
dao zui shen de di fang cai fa xian ni zao yi jing fang qi wo
As I reached there, I just realised that you had given up on me a while ago.

我听到海浪温柔的呼吸
wo ting dao hai lang wen rou de hu xi
I heard the waves, like a gentle breath

我看着云朵飘来飘去
wo kan zhe yun duo piao lai piao qu
Looking at the clouds above, floating here and there...

有什么方法让自己真的忘记
you shen me fang fa rang zi ji zhen de wang ji
Was there any way that could really let me forget the past?

only blue only blue

爱让人好忧郁
ai rang ren hao you yu
Love made us feeling so blue

我的心我的心蓝蓝地
wo de xin wo de xin lan lan di
My heart was so bluish.

我真的想找一条船能远远离开这片沙滩
wo zhen de xiang zhao yi tiao chuan neng yuan yuan li kai zhe pian sha tan
I really wished to look for a boat, hoping it could take me far, far away from this beach.

每次又回到同样海边还是会对你想念
mei ci you hui dao tong yang hai bian hai shi hui tui ni xiang nian
However, the waves pushed me back to the same spot I started, I still missed you...

想念你有点blue 没有人能向你
xiang nian ni you dian blue mei you ren neng xiang ni
Missing you felt slightly blue because there was no one like you in my life before

留给我的回忆有点 blue oh
liu gei wo de hui yi you dian blue oh
Leaving me such memories, feeling slightly blue...

only blue...

距离 - Ju Li (Gap)

2008-07-20T18:06:00.000+08:00

在距离三公里的位置
zai ju li san gong li de wei zhi
我在这里
wo zai zhe li
想像心中的你的呼吸
xiang xiang xin zhong de ni de hu xi
同样的熄着灯的窗子
tong yang de xi zhe deng de chuang zi
你在那里
ni zai na li
听不到我呼吸着分离
ting bu dao wo hu xi zhe fen li

我走向前你看不见
wo zou xiang qian ni kan bu jian
真的遥远
zhen de yao yuan
就连叹息影子听见
jiu lian tan xi ying zi ting jian
也是无言
ye shi wu yan
你走向前我看不见
ni zou xiang qian wo kan bu jian
你的思念
ni de si nian
你和我之间
ni he wo zhi jian
刻着一条界线不曾有改变
ke zhe yi tiao jie xian bu zeng you gai bian

保留着三公分的距离
bao liu zhe san gong fen de ju li
我的眼里
wo de yan li
填满着整个我爱的你
tian man zhe zheng ge wo ai de ni
坐在同一张四方桌子边
zuo zai tong yi zhang si fang zhuo zi bian
你的眼里
ni de yan li
读不到眷着我的讯息
du bu dao juan zhe wo de xun xi
当爱离开之前
dang ai li kai zhi qian

能多苦能多深能多甜
neng duo ku neng duo shen neng duo tian
距离是你走过我身边
ju li shi ni zou guo wo shen bian

牽牽牽牽手 - Kenji Wu

2008-07-17T20:23:00.000+08:00

Another song from Kenji... he's melting girl's heart with such a sweet lyrics... after "Wei Ni Xie Shi" and now... "Chien Chien Chien Shou"...haha!! But the MV's a bit sad...

我的話不多不會討好
wǒ de huà bù duō bú huì tǎo hǎo

一句我愛你都說不好
yī jù wǒ ài nǐ dōu shuō bù hǎo

全世界想救都沒解藥
quán shì jiè xiǎng jiù dōu méi jiě yào

只有你給我微笑
zhǐ yǒu nǐ gěi wǒ wēi xiào

[＊]
該怎麼去愛我沒學好
gāi zěn me qù ài wǒ méi xué hào

太多的招式我沒記牢
tài duō de zhāo shì wǒ méi jì láo

原來牽了手就會知道
yuán lái qiān le shǒu jiù huì zhī dào

愛情不需要套招
ài qíng bù xū yào tào zhāo

這招只有你知道
zhè zhāo zhǐ yǒu nǐ zhī dao

牽牽牽牽手一直走到最後
qiān qiān qiān qiān shǒu yī zhí zǒu dào zuì hòu

我們開心的夢游
wǒ men kāi xīn de mèng yóu

牽牽牽牽手永遠十指緊扣
qiān qiān qiān qiān shǒu yǒng yuǎn shí zhǐ jǐn kòu

我相信我會永遠在你左右
wǒ xiāng xìn wǒ huì yǒng yuán zài nǐ zuǒ yòu

[Repeat verse at ＊]

牽牽牽牽手一直走到最後
qiān qiān qiān qiān shǒu yī zhí zǒu dào zuì hòu

我們開心的夢游
wǒ men kāi xīn de mèng yóu

牽牽牽牽手永遠十指緊扣
qiān qiān qiān qiān shǒu yǒng yuǎn shí zhǐ jǐn kòu

我相信我會永遠在你左右
wǒ xiāng xìn wǒ huì yǒng yuán zài nǐ zuǒ yòu

永遠在你左右
yǒng yuán zài nǐ zuǒ yòu

Xi Huan Yi Ge Ren Hao Lei - 喜欢一个人好累

2008-07-14T12:28:00.000+08:00

A simple song with simple lyrics...but yet it matches the feelings of most of the people out there...who are currently confused with their feelings...

昨天你送我一个笑脸
zuo tian ni song wo yi ge xiao lian

今天你经过了我身边
jin tian ni jing guo le wo shen bian

每天你这样一举一动
mei tian ni zhe yang yi ju yi dong

都影响我的悲伤喜悦
dou ying xiang wo de bei shang xi yue

昨天你多看了我一眼
zuo tian ni duo kan le wo yi yen

今天我有些心不在焉
jin tian wo you xie xin bu zai yan

哪天我才会有勇气勇敢面对
na tian wo cai hui you yong qi yong gan mian dui

暗恋喜欢一个人好美
an lian si huan yi ge ren hao mei

想像你轻轻搂我的肩
xiang xiang ni qing qing lou wo de jian

走在人挤人的街
zou zai ren ji ren de jie

抓紧你的手甜蜜无限
zhua jin ni de shou tian mi wu xian

暗恋喜欢一个人好累
an lian xi huan yi ge ren hao lei

流泪在数不尽的黑夜
liu lei zai shu bu jin de hei ye

想念变成了习惯
xiang nian bien cheng le xi guan

想你一遍遍你却好远
xiang ni yi bian bian ni que hao yuen

如果你不当我是朋友
ru guo ni bu dang wo shi peng you

而是其他重要的角色
er shi qi ta zhong yao de jiao she

是否我就可以占有你每个笑容
shi fou wo jiu ke yi zhan you ni mei ge xiao rong

喜欢一个人真的好累
xi huan yi ge ren zhen de hao lei

but... if you really love that person...it wouldn't be so hard for you to confess right?

What's the point of waiting and being tired?

Just go straight to the point and tell that person I LOVE YOU!!

You might stand a chance if the person loves you in return!

Then 你不会累了... haha!

*wink*

那些女孩教我的事-品冠

2008-06-26T20:04:00.000+08:00

要不是你让想念猖狂打破天窗
我不会发现枕头上的光亮
以为你就是故乡
却变成我的流浪
谁的傍晚是谁的天亮

十九八七六十六亿人同时狂欢
五四三二一个人倒数孤单
回忆的拥挤广场
假装你还在身旁
就像你最爱依赖我的肩膀

第一行诗的狂妄
第一首歌的难忘
第一次吻你的唇
你的倔强
第一颗流星灿烂
第一个天真愿望
第一个诺言美丽的荒唐

你叫我爱的善良
你教我恨的野蛮
你教我忘记该忘
伤心太伤
那些你教我的事
让思念更苦更长
只想问
想念的想念的想念的你
怎么样

爱情是信仰
或只能是旅途风光
那女孩带我漫游一次天堂
你教我怎么爱上
却没教怎么遗忘
让我的阳光都换成了泪光

第一行诗的狂妄
第一首歌的难忘
第一次吻你的唇
你的倔强
第一颗流星灿烂
第一个天真愿望
第一个诺言美丽的荒唐

你教我爱的善良
你教我恨的野蛮
你教我忘记该忘
伤心太伤
那些你教我的事
让思念更苦更长
想念的想念的想念的你
只想问
怎么样

第一行诗的狂妄

I'm Yours - Jason Mraz

2008-06-26T19:40:00.000+08:00

Well you done done me and you bet I felt it
I tried to be chill but you're so hot that I melted
I fell right through the cracks
And now I'm trying to get back
Before the cool done run out
I'll be giving it my bestest
Nothing's going to stop me but divine intervention
I reckon it's again my turn to win some or learn some

I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait, I'm yours

Well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love
Listen to the music of the moment people dance and sing
We're just one big family.
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love loved love love

So I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

I've been spending way too long checking my tongue in the mirror
And bending over backwards just to try to see it clearer
But my breath fogged up the glass
And so I drew a new face and I laughed
I guess what I be saying is there ain't no better reason
To rid yourself of vanitys and just go with the seasons
It's what we aim to do
Our name is our virtue

But I won't hesitate no more, no more
It cannot wait I'm yours
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

Well no no, well open up your mind and see like me
Open up your plans and damn you're free
Look into your heart and you'll find love love love love
Listen to the music of the moment come and dance with me
I like one big family (2nd time: I like happy family)
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved love love love

I won't hesitate no more
Oh no more no more no more
It's your God-forsaken right to be loved, I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours

No I won't hesitate no more, no more
This cannot wait I'm sure
There's no need to complicate
Our time is short
This is our fate, I'm yours, I'm yours

死心眼-彭佳慧

2008-06-25T19:36:00.000+08:00

永远有多远　想了一整夜
我才不管以後的路刮风又下雪
也许你没说　你爱我
可是也没说　不爱我
女人的时间　少得很可怜
你说的很对　可是我为了谁冒险
我不是神仙　我也会抱怨
我只要一分钟　你还拖延
爱情偷走我的理智　你笑我死心眼
爱你浪费多少时间　你不会发现
是你给我泪里的硷　是你给我苦里的甜
是你带著我越过了极限
幸福住我的眼睛　也让我死心眼
爱它莫名其妙出现　我睡的很甜
是我忘了还有从前　是我忘了还有明天
是我忘了说　情人再见
(music)
嘿　你笑我老爱掉眼泪
女人的泪　是一种正当的防备
我可以飞　我没有飞
是为了谁　你知道为了谁
爱情偷走我的理智　你笑我死心眼
爱你浪费多少时间　你不会发现
是你给我泪里的硷　是你给我苦里的甜
是你带著我越过了极限
幸福住我的眼睛　也让我死心眼
爱它莫名其妙出现　我睡的很甜
是我忘了还有从前　是我忘了还有明天
是我忘了说　情人再见

Xin Dong...

2008-06-03T19:15:00.001+08:00

每當我唱这首歌的时候
你就会知道我在告诉你
我爱你。。。
这个东西就够了
*from the songwritter...*

有多久没见你
You Duo Jiu Mei Jian Ni
How long have I never seen you?

以为你在那里
Yi Wei Ni Zai Na Li
I thought you were there

原来就住在我的心底
Yuan Lai Jiu Zhu Zai Wo Xin Di
In fact you're just deep inside my heart

陪伴着我的呼吸
Pei Ban Zhe Wo De Hu Xi
Accompanying my breath

有多远的距离
You Duo Yuan De Ju Li
How far is the distance?

以为闻不到你的气息
Yi wei wen bu dao ni qi xi
I thought I can't smell you

谁知道你背影这么长
Shui Zhi Dao Ni Bei Ying Zhe Me Chang
Who knows your shadow is so long

回头就看到你
Hui tou jiu kan dao ni
Once I turn around I see you

过去让它过去
Guo qu rang ta guo qu
Let the past go

来不及从头喜欢你
Lai bu ji / Cong tou xi huan ni
It's too late to love you from the start

白云缠绕着蓝天
Bai yun chan rao zhe lan tian
As if clouds are covering the blue sky

如果不能够永远都在一起
Ru guo bu neng gou yong yuan dou zai yi qi
If we can't be together forever

也至少给我们
Ye zhi shao gei wo men
Give us at least

怀念的勇气
Huai nian de yong qi
the courage to miss

拥抱的权利
Yong bao de quan li
The right to hug

好让你明白
Hao rang ni ming bai
So that you understand

我心动的痕迹
Wo xin dong de hen ji
The trace of my heart moving

总是想再见你
Zong shi xiang zai jian ni
Always wish to see you again

还试着打探你的消息
Hai shi zhe da tan ni xiao xi
I even attempt to inquire your news

原来你就住在我的身体
Yuan lai ni jiu zhu zai wo de shen ti
In fact you're just living in my body

守护我的回忆
Shou zhu wo de hui yi
Guarding my memories

我以为 - Wo Yi Wei - I Thought

2008-05-25T14:00:00.000+08:00

你曾说不想有天让我知道
Ni ceng shuo bu xiang you tian rang wo zhi dao
You’ve once said that you don’t want me to know

你对他有那么好
Ni dui ta you na me hao
How good you are to him

你说会懂我的失落
Ni shuo hui dong wo de shi luo
You’ve said that you’d understand my sorrow

不是靠宽容
Bu shi kao kuan rong
Not depending on tolerance

就能够解脱
Jiu neng gou jie tuo
Then we can solve it

我以为
Wo yi wei
I thought

我出现的时候刚好
Wo chu xian de shi hou gang hao
The time I came was just right

你和他正说要分开
Ni he ta zheng shuo yao fen kai
You were going to break up with him

我以为你
Wo yi wei ni
I thought that you’d

已对他不再期待
Yi dui ta bu zai qi tai
Already lost hope in him

不纵容他再给你伤害
Bu zong rong ta zai gei ni shang hai
Not bothering even if he hurts you again

我以为我的温柔
Wo yi wei wo de wen rou
I thought my gentleness

能给你真的愉悦
Neng gei ni zhen de yu yue
Will give you real happiness

我以为我能全力
Wo yi wei wo neng quan li
I thought that my whole strength

填满你感情缺口
Tian man ni gan qing que kou
Will fill your desire for love

专心陪在你左右
Zhuan xin pei zai ni zuo you
Staying by your side all the time

弥补他一切的错
Mi bu ta yi qie de cuo
To make up for all his wrongs

也许我太过天真
Ye xu wo tai guo tian zhen
Maybe I’m just too naïve

以为奇迹会发生
Yi wei qi ji hui fa sheng
Believing that miracles will happen

我以为终究
Wo yi wei zhong jiu
I thought after a long time

你会慢慢明白
Ni hui man man ming bai
You will slowly understand

他的心不在你身上
Ta de xin bu zai ni shen shang
That his heart no longer with you

我的关心
Wo de guan xin
My concerns

你依然无动于衷
Ni yi ran wu dong yu zhong
You still don’t understand them

我的以为只是我以为
Wo de yi wei qi shi wo yi wei
All my thoughts are just merely what I thought

他让你红了眼眶
Ta rang ni hong le yan kuang
He made your eyes red

你却还笑着原谅
Ni que hai xiao zhe yuan liang
Somehow you’re still smiling and forgiving him

原来你早就想好
Yuan lai ni cao jiu xiang hao
Actually you’ve already decided it earlier

你要留在谁身旁
Ni yao liu zai shui shen pang
The one you would stay beside

我以为我够坚强
Wo yi wei wo gou jian qiang
I thought I’d be strong enough

却一天天地失望
Que yi tian tian de shi wan
Somehow I’m just disappointed every day

少给我一点希望
Shao gei wo yi dian xi wang
Don’t give me a bit hope

希望就不是奢望
Xi wang jiu bu shi she wang
Hoping is not desperately hoping

却输得那呢绝望
Que shu de na me jue wang
Somehow I lost so hopelessly

What Sign Is Your True Love?

2008-05-16T19:50:00.000+08:00

Your True Love Is a Capricorn

Why you'll love a Capricorn:

Hard working and driven, a Capricorn will work overtime to win your heart.

Be prepared to get wined and dined, even once you're convince that your Capricorn is the one!

Why a Capricorn will love you:

You don't rush things. You know it will take a while for a Capricorn to trust you, and you can wait.

Social and outgoing, you can introduce normally shy Capricorn to a great circle of friends.

What Sign Is Your True Love?

wooo!! i love the part "a Capricorn will work overtime to win your heart."...so sweeeetttt..... =D

Where is the LOVE??

2008-05-15T21:36:00.000+08:00

This is totally INHUMAN!!

Even animals will love and protect their child...this type of ppl is worst than animal...or should i say " Kam Sao Dou Pat Yu"

To all parents out there...please take good care and love your childs...you are the one who bring them to this world and it is your responsibility to love and take care of them...they are part of you...they are your own blood~

This is what I found in TheStar's news...
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Thursday May 15, 2008
Four-year-old raped by dad

JOHOR BARU: A 27-year-old man allegedly raped his four-year-old daughter repeatedly at their home in Kangkar Pulai.

The contract worker’s heinous act was uncovered when the victim complained of pain in her private parts.

When the mother, in her 20s, inspected her, she found blood in her daughter’s private parts.

The girl then told her that her father had done things to her, which prompted the mother to lodge a police report.

Nusajaya OCPD Supt Abd Aziz Ahmad said police picked up the suspect on Tuesday.

“Initial investigations revealed that the suspect committed the offence repeatedly at their home while the wife was busy taking care of their two other children.

“The victim has been sent to the Sultanah Aminah Hospital for treatment and a medical check-up,” he said.

Supt Abd Aziz said the suspect might have committed the offence since early this month.

He added that the suspect also has a six-year-old son and a three-month-old baby.

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Another news : http://www.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/5/15/nation/21252752&sec=nation

Confirmed that I'm Virgo... =="

2008-05-14T19:18:00.002+08:00

Virgo - Your Love Profile

Your positive traits:

You're incredibly thoughtful and able to give your partner what they need most.

You are totally logical. You can deal with problems without involving your emotions.

A good work ethic. You'll do whatever it takes (within reason) to make your relationship work.

Your negative traits:

Sometimes you are so focused on your goals that you let your relationships suffer

You tend to be a perfectionist - and expect perfection from your mate as well

You are picky. So picky that you rather be single than with someone who has a few minor faults.

Your ideal partner:

Values success in life as much as you do

Fits a checklist of qualities you've been looking for since childhood

Like you, is more practical and realistic than romantic

Your dating style:

Active. You're a bit hyper, so you'd prefer a date that involved rollerblading in the park or hiking.

Your seduction style:

You may seem a bit shy, but once you open up to someone - you're totally uninhibited

You like to set the scene first - candles, music, nice sheets

A bit obsessed with cleanliness, you may want to shower first with your love

Tips for the future:

Soften up a little. Vulnerability is sexy - and feels great over time.

Lower your standards a little. Look past a messy desk or someone being five minutes late.

Praise your partner more. You make expect them to be successful, but complements are still appreciated.

Best color to attract mate: Navy blue

Best day for a date: Wednesday

What's Your Love Profile?

Ghost protections in hotel

2008-05-11T15:16:00.000+08:00

Well guys,

It's up to you all to believe!

*OK, here's some info*

*Every single hotel, there shall be at least a permanent room which should be left vacant at all times. No matter how full the hotel is, they are not to sell that room(s) to any guest. It was said that special room was "reserved" for those "special visitors".

So, if you plan to stay in some hotel, always book in advance. Try to avoid walk-in. If the receptionist tell you there's no more room available, do not insist one anymore or try to bribe them to give you a room. If you do that, most of the time the room you have will be that "special room".

Sometimes those "special visitors" might go to other rooms also, so here's some tips on how to protect yourself:

- Before entering your room, always knock on the door first, even you know the room is vacant.

- After you enter the room, if you felt very cold suddenly and have "chicken spore", leave the room quietly and immediately and go to the reception to request for a change of room. Most of the time the receptionist will understand what's happening.

- After you enter the room, immediately switch on all of the lights, and draw the curtains to let the sun light in.

- Before you go to bed, arrange your shoes so that one of them is upside down. Some say this is representing yin & yang to protect you while you're asleep.

- Always leave at least a lamp on while you're sleeping, preferably the toilet's lamp.

- If you're staying alone and they have give you a twin bed, do not sleep with the other bed vacant, try to put your things like luggage on the other bed before you sleep.

*Please pass this info to those who travel. Tks.*

Mr.Woody

2008-05-11T15:07:00.000+08:00

猜不透是哪裏出了错
cai bu tou shi na li chu le cuo　
恋爱的进度有些落後
lian ai de jin du you xie luo hou
据线报说你也喜欢我
ju xian bao shuo ni ye xi huan wo
怎麽会还无动於衷　
zen mo hui huan wu dong yu zhong
气象报告天气很不错
qi xiang bao gao tian qi hen bu cuo 　
太阳晒得我脸颊红红
tai yang shai de wo lian jia hong hong
我也很想跟你做朋友
wo ye hen xiang gen ni zuo peng you　
叫你傻傻还不懂
jiu ni sha sha huan bu dong
默数123木头人
mo shu yi er san mu tou ren　
再不心动就要被扣分
zai bu xing dong jiu yao bei kou fen
我一直在等着
wo yi zhi zai deng zhao 　
恋爱轰轰烈烈的发生
lian ai hong hong lie lie de fa sheng
默数123木头人
mo shu yi er san mu tou ren　
明明暗示得够明显了
ming ming an shi de gou ming xian le
我很天真
wo hen tian zhen　
觉得勇敢的情话最动人
jue de yong gan de qing hua zui dong ren
脚步太快你走在前头
jiao bu tai kuai ni zou zai qian tou　
我在你背後开不了口
wo zai ni bei hou kai bu le kou
多希望你在下个路口
duo xi wang ni zai xia ge lu kou　
就会牵起我的手
jiu neng qian qi wo de shou
默数123木头人
mo shu yi er san mu tou ren　
再不表白天就要黑了
zai bu biao bai tian jiu yao hei le
我真的很想问
wo zhen de hen xiang wen　
你是害羞还是太迟钝
ni shi hai xiu huan shi tai chi dun

默数123木头人
mo shu yi er san mu tou ren 　
给我1秒心动的眼神
gei wo yi miao xin dong de yan shen
我期待著
wo qi dai zhao　
因为有你让爱情能完整
yin wei you ni rang ai qing neng wan zheng
123木头人
yi er san mu tou ren　
再不表白天就要黑了
zai bu biao bai tian jiu yao hei le
我真的很想问
wo zhen de hen xiang wen　
你是害羞还是太迟钝
ni shi hai xiu huan shi tai chi dun
默数123木头人
mo shu yi er san mu tou ren　
给我1秒心动的眼神
gei wo yi miao xin dong de yan shen
我期待著
wo qi dai zhao　
因为有你让爱情能完整
yin wei you ni rang ai qing neng wan zheng
因为有你让爱情能完整
yin wei you ni rang ai qing neng wan zheng　

This is what we call..."Orang Tamak Selalu Rugi"

2008-05-07T21:22:00.000+08:00

On the very first day of the world, God created the cow.
He said to the cow: "Ah Gu (cow), today I have created you! Your job is to go to the field with the farmer all day long. You will provide the energy to pull things! You will also provide milk for people to drink! You are to work all day under the sun! In return, you will only eat grass. For that, you will have a life span of 50 years. " Ah Gu objected. "What.. I work all day in the sun and I get only to eat grass! On top of that, I have to give my milk
away! This is tough and you want me to live 50 years! I'll take 20 and you can have the remaining 30 years back! " God agreed.

On the next day, God created the dog. He said to the dog. "Ah Kow (dog), I have created you for a purpose. You are to sit all day by the door of your master's house! Should anyone come in, you are to bark at them! In return, you will eat your master's leftovers. I'll give you a life span of 20 years. " Ah Kow objected. " What! I have to sit by the door all day and will need to bark at people, and what do I get...LEFTOVERS...This isn't right, I'll take 10 and you can have the remaining10 years back! " God agreed again.

On the third day, God created the monkey. He said to the monkey. "Lao Kao (monkey), your job is to entertain people. You will make them laugh, act stupid and make faces! You will also do somersaults and swing on trees to amaze them. In return, you will get to eat bananas and peanuts.For that, I'll give you 20 years to live. " Naturally the monkey objected. "This is ridiculous,I gotta make faces and make people laugh let not even come to the part about the trees and somersaults. Tell you what, I'll give 10 years of my life to thank you for my existence and I'll take 10.What do you think?" God agreed again.

On the forth day, God created humans. God said to the man. "You are my best piece of work, for that, you will only need to sleep,eat, sleep, play, eat, sleep again and do nothing else. You will get to eat all the best things and play with the best toys. All you need to do is enjoy all your life. For this kinda of life, I'll give you 20 years." Just like the rest, the man objected." What, all I need to do is relax and enjoy myself and I have only 20 years to live? Tell you what, you've 30 years back from Ah Gu, 10 years from Ah Kow and another 10 from Lao Kao and you probably don't know what to do with all those lifes. Why not I take them all and I'll have 70 years to live? "
God being such good natured, agreed with a smile.....

And THAT IS WHY..... We eat, sleep, play and enjoy for the first 20 years of our lives when we are growing up. Work like a cow for the next 30 to raise our family. Sit outside the door and bark at people for the next 10 when we are retired.And finally, we make faces and perform monkey tricks to entertain our grandchildren for the final 10 years.
GET IT !

Are You Romantic or Realistic?

2008-04-19T20:35:00.001+08:00

You Are A Romantic

You life your life like a fairy tale... or at least you try to.

Living for magical moments, you believe there's only one true love for you.

Love is the most important thing in your life, and you don't take it for granted.

Your perfect match loves to be in love as much as you do!

Are You Romantic or Realistic?

I choose num2...wat bout u?

2008-04-19T20:09:00.000+08:00

異性家的墳墓..(一個字...準)

你（妳）到異性家的時候，發覺她（他）家的四周都是墳墓，你（妳）會有什麼反應？
請一定要以一看完這個題目的第一心理反應，這樣才準喔！

一、
心裡覺得很害怕，並跟他說你要回家。

二、
心裡覺得很害怕，但還是跟他進屋子。

三、
這個房子一定很便宜。

四、
他家裡一定有鬼。

五、
住在這裡一定很刺激。

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★看個性：
1.
你是一個敢愛不敢恨的人
任性的個性是你最大的缺憾，說話經常帶刺，儘管如此，你身邊的朋友還是能夠委婉的接受你，可是你卻依然我行我素，建議你先試著去調適自己的心態，多為別人著想，相信你一定能夠得到朋友的掌聲。

2.
喜歡為人服務是你個性的特色
臉上時時刻刻都帶著微笑，認識你的朋友都應該覺得很慶幸，你很容易相信別人，但有時候也會因為這樣，跟你朋友的不老實大吵大罵，可是你還是會原諒他，唯一美中不足的是，你常會因為心情不愉快而亂發脾氣，不過也只會對你的知心朋友這麼做。

3.
關心別人是你生活中重要的一環
但你又不擅長表達你心中的熱誠，所以你只好躲在陰暗的角落，等著別人來發掘你，是個標準的被動者。

4.
說話一直線是你的特色
你不會畏懼權力的威脅，具有獨斷、領導的本能，你常要求自己一定要時時刻刻進步，有種不落人後的上進態度，也因為這樣，你身邊的朋友不太敢接近你，怕被你取笑，但其實你並非是這種人，建議你多往人際關係發展。

5.
你是個性開朗活潑、好動的人
喜歡追求新鮮事，更愛穿戴最流行的衣帽，不喜歡過著被拘束的生活，嚮往自由自在的生活空間，也因為這樣，常常跟家人處的不甚愉快，如果你是位女孩子，我相信你一定有過這樣的經驗。

★看朋友：
1.
你的人際關係是不錯，但沒有一個願意與你談心，你自己也知道這一點，也曾試著走入他們的領域，但卻因為他們對你的刻板印象太深，有時也會不相信你的用心良苦，如果你真的很想讓他們了解你的真誠，就以行動來表示你的誠意吧！

2.
你不會因為朋友是異性而有所拘束，對待你不太認識的朋友時，都抱持著既期待又怕受傷害的心態去接觸對方，一旦熟識後，你就不會有所拘束。

3.
你對待朋友的態度就如同對待親人般地無微不至，雖然你很被動，但你很熱衷於為他們幫忙的樂趣，所以如果有人利用你這樣的個性，來幫他做事情，你會一輩子都不會原諒他。

4.
當你踏進一個新環境時，你總是扮演著佼佼者的角色，很自然的，就會有很多人想接近你，但過了一段時間後，因為你的求進態度，希望別人也能夠有像你這樣的能力，造成別人對你的疏離，但你是出自好心，並無其它心機。建議你先去了解他們的生活態度，再進一步的適應。

5.
你總是把朋友當作是你生活的交響樂，沒有他們你就會變得很寂寞，所以你對待朋友態度是很熱情奔放的。

★看愛情：
1.
很會挑選對象的你，要求你的異性一定要很完美或是外表姣好，你才會去跟他接觸，較不會去觀察他的行為舉止，是一個不大注重內在而去談戀愛的人。

2.
你對愛情的感應比較遲鈍，但在你心裡可就很敏銳，你總會以猜測的心態去接觸你所心儀的對象，不過事實通常都與你所想的互相矛盾，而你也會因此感到失望，如果有異性相當關心你的生活，你會因此而喜歡上他，可是你又不敢開口，等到你要向他表白時，他已經另有對象了，建議你要把握機會，千萬不要錯失良機。

3.
你對你另一半的條件要求，也是很嚴格的，但你較注重內在的修養，外表則是其次，也就因為這樣，你的對象常常換來換去，不過這都是你心裡所想的對象。

4.
老是在工作的你，根本就沒時間談戀愛，常會有人在暗戀你，但你卻不曉得，所以說，像你這樣的領導人物，通常都會比較晚婚。

5.
你對愛情的定義並不是很贊同，因為你覺得談戀愛就好像是在玩親嘴的遊戲，所以你很期盼有個能夠與你真心相愛的異性，而不是局限於外貌的姣好。

★看工作：
1.
認真的工作態度是你最令人敬佩的優點，你會盡你最大的努力把工作完成，但是你也會因為私事而把工作丟在一旁，等忙完了才繼續工作，建議你先試著去安排自己的時間，好提醒自己什麼時間該做什麼事。

2.
你有時候會因為工作的全神貫注，而忘了自己還有事情要做，如果你工作時遇到問題或阻礙時，你會主動的去詢問別人，是一個不折不扣的日本人。

3.
你常因為工作的緣故，幾忽差點忘了吃飯和睡覺，可說是已經達到了廢寢忘食的最高境界，如果工作有所阻礙或是份量過重，你會樂意的接受別人給你的意見、並積極的安排自己的時間，告訴自己什麼時間該做什麼事。

4.
與生俱來的領導能力，在工作時一定是發揮的淋璃盡致，雖然如此，有時也要聽聽下屬的意見，儘管你做的都是對的、又有效率，畢竟會有所議論或怨言，因此，當你正在忙的暈頭轉向時，花點時間靜下來聽聽別人的建言。

5.
你的工作態度與一般人有所差異，別人是卯足全力拼命地在做，而你則是在思考有什麼最省力、也最省時間的方法來達成工作，具有一種發明家的工作態度。

★看金錢：
1.
你很會理財，懂得如何在花費上作取捨，但因為你的私心較強烈，常會為了自己喜愛的東西，不惜一切地去得到，甚至跟朋友借錢，可是得到了也不大去珍惜。

2.
對於生活上的每項花費，你都很僅慎的斟酌、考量，有時朋友會誤認為你是小氣財神，但其實這不過是你節儉的習慣，碰到真需要用錢時，你也是會很大方的。

3.
個性被動的你，對於金錢這種敏感的東西，你比較不擅長於管理，但你懂的如何去規劃，大體上來講，你蠻需要一位可以幫你管錢的人。

4.
說到花錢，你一定不落人後，當然不是揮霍無度，而是把錢花在時代尖端的產物上，愛好追求時髦也是你花錢大把的原因之一，儘管你很會花錢，但你懂得如何去賺錢，是個相當有商業頭腦的人。

5.
對於金錢這種方便的東西，你已經達到運用自如的境界，就因為太方便，所以你花錢都是很大方的，勸你千萬別大方的走火入魔。

杨宗纬- 幸福的风

2008-04-19T12:35:00.000+08:00

以为我永遠只能一個人生活，孤單的快樂哀愁，
偶爾可以偽裝瀟灑，只有心里慌亂起來自己喝酒，
以为你只是一個美麗的偶然，吹淋我不經意降落，
誰知道你不同，誰知道你不走，
擁抱著我說終于找到了我，
你看穿我的輪廓，親吻我的奮勇，不在乎我曾經的錯，
如果不是你的款款溫柔，還以為真愛只是一個傳說，
請相信我的承諾，雖然有點笨拙，但我看見幸福的風，
如果我把我的手放在背后，愿不愿意牽著一起走。
以为你只是一個美麗的偶然，吹淋我不經意降落，
誰知道你不同，誰知道你不走，
擁抱著我說終于找到了我，
你看穿我的輪廓，親吻我的奮勇，不在乎我曾經的錯，
如果不是你的款款溫柔，還以為真愛只是一個傳說，
請相信我的承諾，雖然有點笨拙，但我看見幸福的風，
如果我把我的手放在背后，愿不愿意牽著一起走。
你看穿我的輪廓，親吻我的奮勇，不在乎我曾經的錯，
如果不是你的款款溫柔，還以為真愛只是一個傳說，
請相信我的承諾，雖然有點笨拙，但我看見幸福的風，
如果我把我的手放在背后，愿不愿意牽著一起走。

waiting for my xing fu de fong... :)

Should U Quit Your Job?

2008-04-15T21:12:00.001+08:00

Your Job Dissatisfaction Level is 42%

Well, you don't have the worst job in the world, but it's not great.

And don't worry, you're not the problem - your company is.

Start looking around for another job, even if you're not totally fed up.

Because in time, you're going to be dying to quit!

Should You Quit Your Job?

Are You A High Maintenance Woman?

2008-04-15T20:32:00.000+08:00

You Are Low Maintenance

Otherwise known as "too good to be true"

You're one laid back chica - and men love that!

Just remember that no good guy likes a doormat.

So if you find your self going along to get along...

Stop yourself and put up a little bit of a fight.

Are You A High Maintenance Woman?

shitz...gotta do sth on this... =="

Your Love Element Is Earth

2008-04-15T19:00:00.001+08:00

Your Love Element Is Earth

In love, you have consistency and integrity.

For you, love is all about staying grounded and centered.

You attract others with your zest for life and experiences.

Your flirting style is defined by setting the scene, creating a unique moment in time.

Steady progress and stability are the cornerstones of your love life.

You may take things too slowly, but you never put your heart at risk.

You connect best with: Fire

Avoid: Wood

You and another Earth element: need each other too much to build a good foundation

What Element Is Your Love?

周笔畅 - 一周年

2008-04-14T21:35:00.000+08:00

又又是一年之后

又走到这路口

转角的咖啡香还依旧

但是你最后你没有

你说的在我背后

没有没出现在那头

我把你的短讯都删了

感觉要好了

陌生人一个小动作

却让我又想你很久

我把你的照片锁起了

可是你生日我还记得

我以为很忙尽量不要想

就是遗忘

不过一年后我们终于变了朋友

等不到你生日时候

抱着你唱首歌

你看我还是那么的温柔

却是朋友的朋友

再想不出什么借口还有要求

不过一年后我们终于只是朋友

回忆里有相同镜头

现实是不同出口

说过的你是否还会记得

你说过的永久

难道是友情比爱情永久

朋友Yeahyeah

周笔畅-一周年

不过一年后我们终于变了朋友

等不到你生日时候

抱着你唱首歌

你看我还是那么的温柔

却是朋友的朋友

再想不出什么借口还有要求

不过一年后我们终于只是朋友

回忆里有相同镜头

现实是不同出口

说过的你是否还会记得

你说过的永久

难道是友情比爱情永久

朋友Yeahyeah

credits to metz for sending over this song...really nice :)

Melody...

2008-04-10T21:00:00.000+08:00

he's da one...hehehe...lin yu zhong zhong zhong zhong... ;)

KAU MELODI YANG INDAH..

MENUSUK DI JIWA

TANPAMU HIDUP KU TAK BERMAKNA

多麽實在的感覺

望著你的臉

這一刻

我到了被人遺忘的永遠

PERTEMUAN YANG TANPA DI DUGA

像迷路的人找到回家的路綫

ENGKAU BAK LAGU DAN AKU BAGAI IRAMA

BERSATU KITA MEWARNAI HIDUP BERSAMA

TANPAMU HILANGLAH NADI KITA BERDUA

MENDERITA TIADA HALUAN

窩在我心裏最動聽的ＭＥＬＯＤＩ

Which Haunted Room will You Choose?

2008-04-10T16:24:00.000+08:00

One day, you get lost in the wilderness while traveling.. It gets dark and you have no choice but to seek refuge in a small hut nearby. The owner tells you all his rooms are haunted. Which room will you choose?

(it is going to be very interesting.. hahahaha)

The room where:

Room (A) - a human head stares at you maliciously from outside your window

Room (B) - the bathroom door creaks open and close, and there are sounds of a woman sighing

Room (C) - the bed starts rocking violently whenever you try to sleep on it

Room (D) -a headless ghost sits at the foot of your bed when you awake in the middle of the night

MAKE ONE COMFORTABLE CHOICE BEFORE YOU SCROLL DOWN FOR THE EXPLANATION. IT'S QUITE AN INTERESTING ANSWER.........

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Scroll down for explanation.

A) A human head stares at you maliciously from outside your window.

Explanation: You need a lot of private space and are more suitable to work alone. You look for stability i.e. a job that is not easily affected by external factors and provides steady income.

E.g. Doctor, lawyer, SOHO, teacher, administrator.

B) The bathroom door creaks open and close, and there are sounds of a woman sighing.

Explanation: You prefer a stable job that does not require you to run around or meet people. You are willing to be subjected to pressure from your bosses if that lets you sit in an air-conditioned office all day.

E.g. Civil servant, engineer, computer engineer, accountant.

C) The bed starts rocking violently whenever you try to sleep on it.

Explanation: You are an active person who cannot sit still and does not like to be restrained.. You are easily adaptable to a job which is full of changes and not routine.

E.g. Marketing, insurance, sales, delivery man, chauffer.

D) A headless ghost sits at the foot of your bed when you awake in the middle of the night.

Explanation: You suit jobs that need you to meet people, especially large crowds. Your job will depend on these people, but you will not know who they are

E.g. superstar, politician, PR, counter/frontline sales.

会呼吸的痛-Fish Leong

2008-04-09T22:07:00.000+08:00

痛真的会呼吸吗?
我的痛...也会吗?
真的不希望答案是会...
我痛够了...不想在痛...
我要快乐！ :)

会呼吸的痛 hui hu xi de tong

在东京铁塔　第一次眺望 zai dong jing tie ta, di yi ci tiao wang

看灯火模仿　坠落的星光 kan deng huo mo fang, zui luo de xing guang

我终於到达　但却更悲伤 wo zhong yu dao da, dan que geng bei shang

一个人完成　我们的梦想 yi ge ren wan cheng, wo men de meng xiang

你总说　时间还很多 ni zhong shuo, shi jian hai hen duo

你可以等我 ni ke yi deng wo

以前我不懂得 yi qian wo bu dong de

未必明天　就有以后 wei bi ming tian, jiu you yi hou

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[A]

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想念是会呼吸的痛 xiang nian shi hui hu xi de tong

它活在我身上所有角落 ta huo zai wo shen shang suo you jiao luo

哼你爱的歌会痛 heng ni ai de ge hui tong

看你的信会痛　连沉默也痛 kan ni de xin hui tong, lian chen mo ye tong

遗憾是会呼吸的痛 yi han shi hui hu xi de tong

它流在血液中来回滚动 ta liu zai xue ye zhong lai hui gun dong

后悔不贴心会痛 hou hui bu tie xin hui tong

恨不懂你会痛 hen bu dong ni hui tong

想见不能见最痛 xiang jian bu neng jian zui tong

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没看你脸上　张扬过哀伤 mei kan ni lian shang, zhang yang guo ai shang

那是种多么　寂寞的倔强 na shi zhong duo me, ji mo de jue jiang

你拆了城墙　让我去流浪 ni chai le cheng qiang, rang wo qu liu lang

在原地等我　把自己捆绑 zai yuan di deng wo, ba zi ji kun bang

你没说　你也会软弱 ni mei shuo, ni ye hui ruan ruo

需要依赖我 xu ya yi lai wo

我就装不晓得 wo jiu zhuang bu xiao de

自由移动　自我地过 zi you yi dong, zi wo de guo
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[repeat A]

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我发誓不再说谎了 wo fa shi bu zai shuo huang le

多爱你就会抱你多紧的 duo ai ni jiu hui bao ni duo jin de

我的微笑都假了 wo de wei xiao dou jia le

灵魂像飘浮着　你在就好了 ling hun xiang piao fu zhe, ni zai jiu hao le

我发誓不让你等候 wo fa shi bu rang ni deng hou

陪你做想做的无论什么 pei ni zuo xiang zuo de wu lun shen me

我越来越像贝壳 wo yue lai yue xiang bei ke

怕心被人触碰　你回来那就好了 pa xin bei ren chu peng, ni hui lai na jiu hao le

能重来那就好了 neng zhong lai na jiu hao le

Onion by Onion's Smell...

2008-04-08T23:00:00.000+08:00

如果你眼神能够为我片刻的降临
ru guo ni yan shen neng gou wei wo pian ke de jiang lin

如果你能听到心碎的声音
ru guo ni neng ting dao xin sui de sheng yin

沉默的守护著你沉默的等奇迹
chen mo de shou hu zhe ni chen mo de deng qi ji

沉默的让自己像是空气
chen mo de rang zi ji xiang shi kong qi

大家都吃著聊著笑著今晚多开心
da jia dou chi zhe liao zhe xiao zhe jin wan duo kai xin

最角落里的我笑得多合群
zui jiao luo li de wo xiao de duo he qun

盘底的洋葱像我永远是调味品
pan di de yang cong xiang wo yong yuan shi tiao wei pin

偷偷的看著你偷偷的隐藏著自己
tou tou de kan zhe ni tou tou de yin cang zhe zi ji

如果你愿意一层一层一层的剥开我的心
ru guo ni yuan yi yi ceng yi ceng yi ceng de bo kai wo de xin

你会发现你会讶异
ni hui fa xian ni hui ya yi

你是我最压抑最深处的秘密
ni shi wo zui ya yi zui shen chu de mi mi

如果你愿意一层一层一层的剥开我的心
ru guo ni yuan yi yi ceng yi ceng yi ceng de bo kai wo de xin

你会鼻酸你会流泪
ni hui bi suan ni hui liu lei

只要你能听到我看到我的全心全意
zhi yao ni neng ting dao wo kan dao wo de quan xin quan yi

听你说你和你的他们暧昧的空气
ting ni shuo ni he ni de ta men ai mei de kong qi

我和我的绝望装得很风趣
wo he wo de jue wang zhuang de hen feng qu

我就样一颗洋葱永远是配角戏
wo jiu xiang yi ke yang cong yong yuan shi pei jiao xi

多希望能与你有一秒专属的剧情
dua xi wang neng yu ni you yi miao zhuan shu de ju qing

There's a few nice songs from Aska Yang

- Ge Zhi

-Cong Lai Hao Bu Hao

-Ni Kan

-Xin Bu Liao Ching (from the competition)

-Lin Wu ( from the competition)

我和她她和他

2008-04-08T19:57:00.000+08:00

a new song from Li Zhi Qing and Emil Chau...

李：别说话来一杯呛口的Chivas 男人帮不怕辣却被爱打垮

周：头发乱脸色差事情再复杂总会有解答

李：我和她她和他我们都爱她放不放让不让都不是办法

周：当逃兵装伟大再这么婆妈你肯定失去她

李：可她接受我玫瑰花

周：你还不送她回家

周：你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

李：我却害怕最后伤害会是她

周：想太多理智的想法不能证明你有多爱她

李：想问个明白却怕会为难她

周：却急着想要知道她的选择吧

李：好挣扎

周：问题在于你并不在于她

李：我懂我傻

李：我和她她和他我们都爱她放不放让不让都不是办法

周：当逃兵装伟大再这么婆妈你肯定失去她

李：可她接受我玫瑰花

周：你还不送她回家

周：你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

李：我我却害怕最后伤害会是她

周：想太多理智的想法不能证明你有多爱她

李：想问个明白却怕会为难她

周：却急着想要知道她的选择吧

李：好挣扎

周：问题在于你并不在于她

李：我懂我傻

周：你算是男人就应该勇敢吧

李：可我却害怕最后伤害会是她

周：想太多理智的想法不能证明你有多爱她

李：想问个明白却怕会为难她

周：却急着想要知道她的选择吧

李：好挣扎

周：问题在于你并不在于她

李：我懂我傻

离开我

2008-03-09T20:20:00.000+08:00

我把你的电话从手机里消除了

我把你的消息从话题里减少了

我把你的味道用香水喷掉了

我把你的照片用全家福挡住了

你让我的懂事变成一种幼稚

你让我的骄傲觉得很无知

你让我的朋友关心我的生活

你让我的软弱陪伴你的自由

离开我你会不会好一点

离开你什么事都难一点

车来了坐上你的明天

车走了我还站在路边

离开我你会不会好一点

离开你什么事都难一点

风来了云就会少一点

你走了我住在雨里面

啊~哈啊~

by Tao Jing Ying...

男人女人

2008-03-08T09:55:00.001+08:00

爱爱爱爱了几回

也明白其中滋味

付出的从来不会等于收回

我却还在等待着谁能出现

伤伤伤伤了几回

也曾经为爱憔悴

爱情里好人总比坏人狼狈

我却还是学不会狠心对谁

男人男人多希望你是好人

多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼

女人女人我答应做个好人

我答应用我一生来换你的快乐一生

爱爱爱爱了几回

也明白其中滋味

付出的从来不会等于收回

我却还在等待着谁能出现

伤伤伤伤了几回

也曾经为爱憔悴

爱情好人总比坏人狼狈

我却还是学不会狠心对谁

男人男人多希望你是好人

多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼

女人女人我答应做个好人

我答应用我一生来换你的快乐一生

男人男人多希望你是好人

多希望用你的真让我不必再心疼

女人女人我答应做个好人

不会再让我(你)心疼一等再等

你就是我等的那个人

男人男人

女人女人多

么希望你是对的人

Self reminder : A carrot, an egg, and a cup of Oolong tea...

2008-03-03T21:41:00.000+08:00

You will never look at a cup of Oolong the same way again...

A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her.

She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up.

She was tired of fighting and struggling.

It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen.

She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire.

Soon the pots came to boil.

In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed Oolong tea.

She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners.

She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl.

She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl.

Then she ladled the Oolong out and placed it in a bowl.

Turning to her daughter, she asked,

"Tell me what you see."

"Carrots, eggs, and Oolong tea," she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots.

She did and noted that they were soft.

The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it.

After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the Oolong.

The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma

The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water.

Each reacted differently.

The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting.

However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.

The egg had been fragile.

Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.

The Oolong tea was unique, however.

After they were in the boiling water , they had changed the water color and taste.

"Which are you?" she asked her daughter.

"When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond?

Are you a carrot, an egg or a Oolong tea?

Think of this: Which am I?

Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat?
Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?
Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the Oolong tea?
The tea actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain.
When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor.
If you are like the tea, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.
When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level?

How do you handle adversity?
Are you a carrot, an egg or a Oolong tea?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

May we all be OOLONG TEA !!!!!!!!!

浪花一朵朵-Redang oh Redang...

2008-02-25T20:12:00.000+08:00

we r coming... *wink wink*

啦...啦...啦...啦...啦...啦...

我要你陪着我

看着那海龟水中游

慢慢的趴在沙滩上

数着浪花一朵朵

你不要害怕

你不会寂寞

我会一直陪在你的左右

让你乐悠悠

日子一天一天过

我们会慢慢长大

我不管你懂不懂我在想什么

噢

我知道有一天

你一定会爱上我

因为我觉得我真的很不错

噢

时光匆匆匆匆流走

也也也不回头

美女变成老太婆

哎哟那那那个时候

我我我我也也已经是个糟老头

啦...啦...

我们一起手牵手

啦...啦...

数着浪花一朵朵

我要你陪着我

看着那海龟水中游

慢慢的趴在沙滩上

数着浪花一朵朵

你不要害怕

你不会寂寞

我会一直陪在你的左右

让你乐悠悠

日子一天一天过

我们会慢慢长大

我不管你懂不懂我在唱什么

噢

我知道有一天

你一定会爱上我

因为我觉得我真的很不错

噢

时光匆匆匆匆流走

也也也不回头

美女变成老太婆

哎哟那那那个时候

我我我我也也已经是个糟老头

啦...啦...

我们一起手牵手

啦...啦...

数着浪花一朵朵

Jay - Dandelion’s Promise

2008-01-09T20:00:00.000+08:00

蒲公英的约定

Pu Gong Ying de Yue Ding
Dandelion's Promise

小学篱芭旁的蒲公英

xiao xue li ba pang de pu gong ying

是记忆里有味道的风景

shi ji yi li you wei dao de feng jing

午睡操场传来蝉的声音

wu shui cao chang chuan lai chan de sheng yin

多少年后也还是很好听

duo shao nian hou ye hao shi hen hao ting

将愿望折纸飞机寄成信

jiang yuan wang zhe zhi fei ji ji cheng xin

因为我们等不到那流星

yin wei wo men deng bu dao na liu xing

认真投决定命运的硬币

ren zhen tou jue ding ming yun de ying bi

却不知道到底能去哪里

que bu zhi dao di neng qu na li

[A]

一起长大的约定

yi qi zhang da de yue ding

那样清晰打过勾的我相信

na yang qing xi dao guo gou de wo xiang xin

说好要一起旅行

shou hao yao yi qi lv xing

是你如今唯一坚持的任性

shi ni ru jin wei yi jian chi de ren xing

[/A]
在走廊上罚站打手心

zai sou lang shang fa zhan dao shou xin

我们却注意窗边的蜻蜓

wo men que zhu yi chuang bian de qing ting

我去到哪里你都跟很紧

wo qu dao na li ni dou gen hen jin

很多的梦在等待着进行

hen duo de meng zai deng dai zhe jin xing

Rainbow - Jay Chou

2008-01-03T20:22:00.000+08:00

哪里有彩虹告诉我
Na li you cai hong gao su wo
Tell me where the rainbow is

能不能把我的愿望还给我
Neng bu neng ba wo de yuan wang huan gei wo
Could you still give me back my wish

为什么天这么安静
Wei shen me tian zhe me an jing
Why is the sky so silent?

所有的云都跑到我这里
Suo you de yun dou pao dao wo zhe li
All of the clouds are running to me

有没有口罩一个给我
You mei you kou zhao yi ge gei wo
Is there a mask for me?

释怀说了太多就成真不了
Shi huai shuo le tai duo jiu cheng zhen bu liao
Recalling too much of the past words can accomplish nothing

也许时间是一种解药
Ye xu shi jian shi yi zhong jie yao
Perhaps time is a kind of antidote

也是我现在正服下的毒药
Ye shi wo xian zai zheng fu xia de du yao
And also the first poison I'm taking now

看不见你的笑我怎么睡得着
Kan bu jian ni de xiao wo zen me shui de zhao
I could not see your smile, how can I sleep well

你的声音这么近我却抱不到
Ni de shen ying zhe me jing wo que bao bu dao
Your silhouette is so close to me, yet I cannot embrace it

没有地球太阳还是会绕
Mei you di qiu tai yang hai shi hui rao
Without earth, the sun can still circle around

没有理由我也能自己走
Mei you li you wo ye neng zi ji zou
Without reasons, I also can walk alone

你要离开我知道很简单
Ni yao li kai wo zhi dao hen jian dan
You want to go away, I know that is very easy

你说依赖是我们的阻碍
Ni shuo yi lai shi wo men de zu ai
You said dependence is our obstacle

就算放开但能不能别没收我的爱
Jiu suan fang kai dan neng bu neng bie mo shou wo de ai
Even if we break up, but couldn't you not receive my love

当作我最后才明白
Dang zuo wo zui hou cai ming bai
Assuming I'm the last to understand

The Three Question Personality Test

2007-12-27T19:52:00.000+08:00

Your Personality Is

Guardian (SJ)

You are sensible, down to earth, and goal oriented.
Bottom line, you are good at playing by the rules.

You tend to be dominant - and you are a natural leader.
You are interested in rules and order. Morals are important to you.

A hard worker, you give your all at whatever you do.
You're very serious, and people often tell you to lighten up.

In love, you tend to take things carefully and slowly.

At work, you are suited to almost any career - but you excel in leadership positions.

With others, you tend to be polite and formal.

As far as looks go, you are traditionally attractive. You take good care of yourself.

On weekends, you tend to like to do organized activities. In fact, you often organize them!

The Three Question Personality Test

What Japanese Smiley Are You?

2007-12-20T13:49:00.000+08:00

You are "Sleeping"

What Japanese Smiley Are You?

What's Your Personality Type?

2007-12-20T13:42:00.000+08:00

You Are An ISFJ

The Nurturer

You have a strong need to belong, and you very loyal.
A good listener, you excel at helping others in practical ways.
In your spare time, you enjoy engaging your senses through art, cooking, and music.
You find it easy to be devoted to one person, who you do special things for.

In love, you express your emotions through actions.
Taking care of someone is how you love them. And you do it well!

At work, you do well in a structured environment. You complete tasks well and on time.
You would make a good interior designer, chef, or child psychologist.

How you see yourself: Competent, dependable, and detail oriented

When other people don't get you, they see you as: Boring, dominant, and stuck in a rut

What's Your Personality Type?

What Kind of Bride Will You Be?

2007-12-20T13:13:00.000+08:00

You Will Be a Traditional Bride!

You're the type of girl who is feminine, old fashioned, and totally traditional.
You've been dreaming of your wedding day since you were young
And you can't wait to be a princess in your big white gown.
It's likely that you'll have a big family wedding and take your husband's name
While a huge affair will be fun, just don't go all Bridezilla about the color of your napkins!

What Kind of Bride Will You Be?

What Does Your Birth Date Mean For Your Love Life?

2007-12-20T13:06:00.000+08:00

Your Birthdate: August 29

You may watch someone from afar before you finally decide to make your move.
It takes a long time for you to develop an attraction to someone.
Generally, you prefer to pick who you love. Anyone who tries to rush you is in for some heartache.

Number of True Loves You'll Have: 3

Number of Times You'll Have Your Heart Broken: 5

You are most compatible with people born on the 2nd, 11th, 20th, and 29th of the month.

What Does Your Birth Date Mean For Your Love Life?

Jie Tuo - Ah Mei Nice song =)

2007-12-16T21:50:00.000+08:00

ai shi bu ye cheng hui yi xiang xing chen
re lei yue fei teng wo yue gan jue you dian leng
bian le xin de ren yue xiang yue shang ren
ku zuo dao qing chen yang guang ti fang jian kai le deng
xiang ruo jie ju yi yang you he ku zai xiang
shang ruo rang ren cheng zhang wo wei shen me pa fen shou de shang
jie tuo shi ken cheng ren zhe shi ge cuo
wo bu ying gai huan bu fang shou
ni you zi you zou wo you zi you hao hao guo
jie tuo shi dong ca gan lei kan yi hou
zhao ge xin fang xiang wang qian zou
zhe shi jie liao kuo wo zong hui shi xian yi ge meng
xin li you yi zhong ke wang yong gan de nian tou
bu yao ai wo de ren zai dan xin wo

Now and Forever - Richard Marx

2007-12-16T21:42:00.000+08:00

Whenever I'm weary from the battles that rage in my head
You make sense of madness when my sanity hangs by a thread
I lose my way but still you seam to understand
Now and forever
I will be your man

Sometimes I just hold you
Too caught up in me to see

I'm holding a fortune that heaven has given to me
I'll try to show you each and every way I can
Now and forever
I will be you man

Now I can rest my worries and always be sure
That I won't be alone anymore
If I'd only known you were there all the time
All this time

Until the day the ocean doesn't touch the sand
Now and forever
I will be your man
Now and forever
I will be your man

What's Your Love Profile?

2007-12-15T22:28:00.000+08:00

Virgo - Your Love Profile

Your positive traits:

You're incredibly thoughtful and able to give your partner what they need most.
You are totally logical. You can deal with problems without involving your emotions.
A good work ethic. You'll do whatever it takes (within reason) to make your relationship work.

Your negative traits:

Sometimes you are so focused on your goals that you let your relationships suffer
You tend to be a perfectionist - and expect perfection from your mate as well
You are picky. So picky that you rather be single than with someone who has a few minor faults.

Your ideal partner:

Values success in life as much as you do
Fits a checklist of qualities you've been looking for since childhood
Like you, is more practical and realistic than romantic

Your dating style:

Active. You're a bit hyper, so you'd prefer a date that involved rollerblading in the park or hiking.

Your seduction style:

You may seem a bit shy, but once you open up to someone - you're totally uninhibited
You like to set the scene first - candles, music, nice sheets
A bit obsessed with cleanliness, you may want to shower first with your love

Tips for the future:

Soften up a little. Vulnerability is sexy - and feels great over time.
Lower your standards a little. Look past a messy desk or someone being five minutes late.
Praise your partner more. You make expect them to be successful, but complements are still appreciated.

Best color to attract mate: Navy blue

Best day for a date: Wednesday

What's Your Love Profile?

Are You Depressed?

2007-12-15T21:54:00.000+08:00

Your Depression Level: 56%

You seem to have mild depression.
A lot of people fall into your range, and it's quite possible you don't need treatment.
If you've been feeling this way for a while, you may want to seek help.

Are You Depressed?

What's Your Dream Engagement Ring?

2007-12-15T21:46:00.000+08:00

Your Dream Engagement Ring Has a Heart Diamond!

You wear your heart on your sleeve, so of course you should also wear it on your ring.
A heart diamond is the perfect choice for highlighting your passionate disposition.
Only a true romantic can get away with wearing this ring. Luckily, that's you.
And only a true romantic can give you this ring, so make sure you find him...!

What's Your Dream Engagement Ring?

Your Love Life Secret

2007-12-15T21:33:00.000+08:00

Your Love Life Secrets Are

Looking back on your life, you will have a few true loves.
You've been deeply wounded in the past, and you're still recovering from that hurt.
You expect a lot from your lover - you want the full package. You tend to be very picky.
In fights, you love to debate and defend yourself. You logic prevails - or at least you'd like to think so.
Getting over a break-up doesn't take long. Easy come, easy go.

http://www.blogthings.com/yourlovelifesecretsrevealedquiz/">Your Love Life Secrets, Revealed

Lil' Sharing

2007-10-21T21:42:00.000+08:00

If you love someone, let them go.
If they come back they’re yours.
If they don’t, they never were.

We come to love not by finding a perfect person,
but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.

Action may not always bring happiness;
but there is no happiness without action

A pessimist sees the difficulty in opportunity,
and an optimist sees the opportunity in every difficulty

Always remember to forget the things that made you sad
But never forget to remember the things that made you happy

Be happy while you're living,
for you're a long time dead.

Consciously or unconsciously,
everyone of us does render some service or another.
If we cultivate the habit of doing this service deliberately,
our desire for service will steadily growstronger,
and it will make not only for our own happiness,
but that of the world at large.

Don't ask yourself what the world needs,
ask yourself what makes you come alive.
And then go and do that.
Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.

For every minute you are angry
you loose sixty seconds of happiness

Friendship improves happiness and abates misery,
by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief.

Happiness comes from spiritual wealth,not material wealth. . .
Happiness comes from giving, not getting.
If we try hard to bring happiness to others,
we cannot stop it from coming to us also.

To get joy, we must give it,
and to keep joy,we must scatter it.

Happiness is not a reward...it is a consequence.
Suffering is not apunishment...it is a result

Happiness is not having what you want.
It's wanting what you have.

Happiness never decreases by being shared
If you want happiness for an hour take a nap.
If you want happiness for a day go fishing.
If you want happiness for ayear inherit a fortune.
If you want happiness for a lifetime help someone else.

Double Rainbow =D

2007-10-20T22:27:00.000+08:00

(Doctors, you better read . . .)

2007-09-15T01:57:00.000+08:00

A 20-yr old pretty, sexy and sensual girl went to see a psychiatrist.

"Doctor, I'm so angry at my boyfriend that I must call him > Bastard.> I feel that he's gone too far, and he deserves it."

"Hmm? Such aword is strong and rude. But may be you have your own> reasons.> Tell me about it so that I can help you."

"Yes, thank you, Doctor. There was one night...we parked our car> besides the beach and we were alone... and... he held my> hand..."

"Did he hold your hand like this?"

"Yes, Doctor. Exactly like how you're holding it now"

"If it's only this, he doesn't deserve to be called Bastard.> It means he doesn't want to be separated from you."

"Then, he leaned his body towards me... and hugged me..."

"Like this?"

"Yes, Doctor. Exactly like how you're doing."

"It's not a Bastard. It means he wanna stay forever by your side"

"Then he kissed me..."

"Like this?"

"Yes, Doctor. Exactly like how you're kissing me."

"If its only a kiss like this, seriouslyyou can't call him > Bastard.> It means he adores you."

"Then he put his hands inside my clothes and touched my boobs,> Doc..."

"Like this?"

"Yes, Doctor... exactly like that"

"It's not behavior of a bastard. It means he wants to protect> you."

"Then he took off all my clothes... slowly... "

"Did you resist?"

"No. I let him do it, coz I love him..."

"Did he take off your clothes like this?"

"Yes, Doctor. Until I'm completely naked like now......"

"He still doesn't deserve to be called "Bastard, because> it means he wanna learn about your body completely."

"Then he kissed me and put his.... inside me and had sex with > me..."

"Did he do it just like what we do?"

"Yes, Doctor. Exactly thesame"

"You still can't call him Bastard. It means he needs you."

"But then he told me that he has AIDS"

All the staff and patients outside heard the doctor screaming,
BASTAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA RRD!

Another nice song... =)

2007-09-11T12:48:00.000+08:00

原来你也唱过我的歌 - by Fish Leong

听说过这边失恋的人也会点唱分手快乐

旁人话过这里有个大男孩欠缺勇气想示爱唱勇气来当替代

分开两地都不紧要即使距离也会再变小

从旋律中的感觉再把我们连系了

如乐章的变调　连过客也变得亲切了

原来你也唱过我的歌陪同见证年月的经过

感激有你肯相信我我们随旋律的高低挽手走过

原来我唱你也在拍和亲昵犹如我是情人吗

即使从未认真拖手过却也彷佛爱过

听说过这边厢的恋人唱我喜欢都很快乐

宁静夏季分享多一首亲亲完全无条件为你

我也觉无穷快乐　分开两地都不紧要今天我陪你唱到破晓

如像熟悉的歌曲已把友谊维系了

唯望好好答谢　能碰上原是有多奇妙

原来你也唱过我的歌　陪同见证年月的经过

感激有你肯相信我

我们随旋律的高低挽手走过

原来我唱你也在拍和亲昵犹如我是情人吗

即使从未认真拖手过却也不愿离座

原来你也唱过我的歌　陪同见证年月的经过

悲喜对错一起去过　我们还未共分享的尚有很多

原来再见仍然未生疏心底埋藏我每段情歌

感激从未认真相识过却这么宠爱我

*this is a very nice song... so ppl out there...go check it out =P

Artistic???

2007-09-08T12:19:00.000+08:00

A gift from my mentor...

Nice?? This mini house made of 2 boxes of matches...

What is this???Any Idea??

2007-09-07T12:32:00.000+08:00

LOOK UP YOUR BIRTHDATE AND SEE WHAT YOU ARE..

2007-09-07T12:18:00.000+08:00

January 01 - 09 ~ Dog

January 10 - 24 ~ Mouse

January 25 - 31 ~ Lion
February 01 - 05 ~ Cat

February 06 - 14 ~ Dove

February 15 - 21 ~ Turtle

February 22 - 28 ~ Panther
March 01 - 12 ~ Monkey

March 13 - 15 ~ Lion

March 16 - 23 ~ Mouse

March 24 - 31 ~ Cat
April 01 - 03 ~ Dog

April 04 - 14 ~ Panther

April 15 - 26 ~ Mouse

April 27 - 30 ~ Turtle
May 01 - 13 ~ Monkey

May 14 - 21 ~ Dove

May 22 - 31 ~ Lion
June 01 - 03 ~ Mouse

June 04 - 14 ~ Turtle

June 15 - 20 ~ Dog

June 21 - 24 ~ Monkey

June 25 - 30 ~ Cat
July 01 - 09 ~ Mouse

July 10 - 15 ~ Dog

July 16 - 26 ~ Dove

July 27 - 31 ~ Cat
August 01 - 15 ~ Monkey

August 16 - 25 ~ Mouse

August 26 - 31 ~ Turtle
September 01 - 14 ~ Dove

September 15 - 27 ~ Cat

September 28 - 30 ~ Dog
October 01 - 15 ~ Monkey

October 16 - 27 ~ Turtle

October 28 - 31 ~ Panther
November 01 - 16 ~ Lion

November 17 - 30 ~ Cat
December 01 - 16 ~ Dog

December 17 - 25 ~ Monkey

December 26 - 31 ~ Dove

If you are a Dog :

A very loyal and sweet person.Your loyalty can never be doubted. You are quite honest and sincere when it comes to your attitude towards working. You are a very simple person, indeed. Absolutely hassle free, humble and down-to-earth!! That explains the reason why your friends cling on to you! You have a good taste for clothes. If your wardrobe is not updated with what is trendy, you sure are depressed. Popular and easy-going. You have a little group of dignified friends, all of them being quality-personified.

If you are a Mouse :

Always up to some sort of a mischief! The mischievous gleam in your eyes is what makes you so cute and attractive to everyone. You are an extremely fun-to-be-with kind of person. No wonder people seek for your company and loo k forward to include you for all get-together's. However, you are sensitive which is a drawback. People need to select their words while talking to you. If someone tries to fiddle around and play with words while dealing with you, it is enough to invite your wrath. God bless the person then!

If you are a Lion:

Quite contradictory to your name, you are a peace loving person. You best try to avoid a situation wherein you are required to fight. An outdoor person, you dislike sitting at one place for a long duration. You are a born leade r, and have it in you how to tactfully derive work from people. You love being loved, and when you receive your share of limelight from someone, you are all theirs!!!! Well, well... hence some people could even take an advantage, flatter you to the maxi mum and get their work done. So be careful.....

If you are a Cat :

An extremely lovable, adorable person, sometimes shy, with a passion for quick wit. At times, you prefer quietness. You love exploring various things and going into depth of each thing. Under normal circumstances you're cool but when given a reason to, you are like a volcano waiting to erupt. You're a fashion bird. People look forward to you as an icon associated wit h fashion. Basically, you mingle along freely but don't like talking much to strangers. People feel very easy in your company. You observe care in choosing your friends.

If you are a Turtle :

You are near to perfect and nice at heart.The examples of your kindness are always circulated in groups of people .You, too, love peace. You wouldn't like to retaliate even to a person who is in the wrong. You are loved due to this. You do not wish to talk behind one's back. People love the way you always treat them. You can give, give and give love, and the best p art is that you do not expect it back in return. You are generous enough. Seeing things in a practical light is what remains the best trait of you guys.

If you are a Dove :

You symbolize a very happy-go-lucky approach in life. Whatever the surroundings may be, grim or cheerful, you remai n unaffected.In fact, you spread cheer wherever you go. You are the leader of your group of friends and good at consoling people in their times of need. You dislike hypocrisy and tend to shirk away from hypocrites. They can never be in your good books, no matter what. You are very methodical and organized in your work. No amount of mess, hence, can ever encompass you. Beware, it is easy for you to fall in love....

If you are a Panther :

You are mysterious. You are someone who can handle pressure with ease, and can handle any atmosphere without going berserk. You can be mean at times, and love to gossip with your selected group. Very prim and proper. You li ke all situations and things to be in the way you desire, which, sometimes is not possible. As a result, you may lose out in some relationships. But otherwise, you love to help people out from difficult and tight spots when they really need you.

If you are a Monkey :

Very impatient and hyper!!! You want things to be done as quick as possible. At heart, you are quite simple and l ove if you are the center of attraction. That way, you people are unique. You would like to keep yourself safe from all the angles. Shall your name be dragged or featured in any sort of a controversy, you then go all panicky. Therefore, you take your pr ecautions from the very beginning. When you foresee anything wrong, your sixth sense is what saves you from falling in traps. Quite a money minded bunch you people are!!

ren bu ke mao xiang..hehehe.. hai shui bu ke tou liang (part 2)

2007-08-23T19:23:00.001+08:00

Have a good laugh n STRESS free~!!!! Yeah~!!

Horoscope

2007-08-23T18:57:00.001+08:00

ARIES - The Liar

Outgoing. Lovable. Spontaneous. Not one to mess with. Funny. Excellent kisser EXTREMELY adorable. Loves relationships, Addictive. Loud.

TAURUS - The Tramp

Aggressive. Loves being in long relationships. Likes to give a good fight for what they want. Extremely outgoing. Loves to help people in times of need. Good kisser. Good personality. Stubborn. A caring person. One of a kind. Not one to mess with. Are the most attractive people on earth!

GEMINI - Irresistible

Nice. Love is one of a kind. Great listeners Very Good in the you know where... Lover not a fighter, but will still knock you out. Trustworthy. Always happy. Loud. Talkative. Outgoing VERY FORGIVING. Loves to make out. Has a beautiful smile. Generous. Strong. THE MOST IRRESISTIBLE.

CANCER - The Cutie

MOST AMAZING KISSER. Very high appeal. Love is one of a kind. Very romantic. Most caring person you will ever meet! Entirely creative. Extremely random and proud of it. Freak. Spontaneous. Great telling stories. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out if it comes down to it. Someone you should hold on to.

LEO - The Lion

Great talker. Attractive and passionate. Laid back. Knows how to have fun. Is really good at almost anything. Great kisser. Unpredictable. Outgoing. Down to earth. Addictive. Attractive. Loud. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Not one to mess with. Rare to find. Good when found.

VIRGO - The One that Waits

Dominant in relationships. Someone loves them right now. Always wants the last word. Caring. Smart. Loud. Loyal. Easy to talk to. Everything you ever wanted. Easy to please. The one and only.

LIBRA - The Lame One

Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! However, not the kind of person you want to mess with... you might end up crying...

SCORPIO - The Addict

EXTREMELY adorable. Intelligent. Loves to joke. Very Good sense of humor. Energetic. Predict future. GREAT kisser. Always get what they want. Attractive. Easy going. Loves being in long relationships. Talkative. Romantic. Caring.

SAGITTARIUS - The Promiscuous One

Spontaneous. High appeal. Rare to find. Great when found. Loves being in long relationships. So much love to give. Not one to mess with. Very pretty. Very romantic. Nice to everyone they meet. Their Love is one of a kind. Silly, fun and sweet. Have own unique appeal. Most caring person you will ever meet! Amazing in the you know where..!!! Not the kind of person you want to mess with- you might end up crying.

CAPRICORN - The Passionate Lover

Love to bust. Nice. Sassy. Intelligent. Sexy. Predict future. Irresistible. Loves being in long relationships. Great talker. Always gets what he or she wants. Cool. Loves to own Gemini's in sports. Extremely fun. Loves to joke. Smart.

AQUARIUS - Does It In The Water

Trustworthy. Attractive. Great kisser. One of a kind. Loves being in long-term relationships. Extremely energetic. Unpredictable. Will exceed your expectations. Not a Fighter, But will Knock your lights out.

PISCES - The Partner for Life

Caring and kind. Smart. Center of attention. High appeal. Has the last word. Good to find, hard to keep. Fun to be around. Extremely weird but in a good way. Good Sense of Humor!!! Thoughtful. Always gets what he or she wants. Loves to joke. Very popular. Silly, fun and sweet.

A test on how caring u r to others

2007-08-22T14:05:00.000+08:00

Click this link for da test =)

http://www.sanriotown.com/psycho/psycho.htm

ren bu ke mao xiang..hehehe.. hai shui bu ke tou liang

2007-08-22T13:30:00.000+08:00

Personality Test...Give it a try

2007-08-17T16:55:00.000+08:00

Take a piece of paper and write down the answers..

The analysis is in the end....

Situation:

You are in a deep deep forest... as you walk on yousaw an old hut standing there

(1) What is the status of the door?

(Opened/closed)

You enter the hut and see a table...

(2) What is the shape of the table?

(Round/Oval/Square/Rectangle/Triangle)

On top of the table there is a vase... in the vasethere is water.

(3) How much water is it filled up with?

(Full/Half/Empty)

(4) and what is the vase made of?

[(Glass/porcelain/clay)(metal/plastic/wood)]

You walk out of the hut... as you carry on your walkin the forest... you see a waterfall from far...there is water running down...

(5) What is the speed of the water?

(Choose a number ranging from 0 to 10)

Some time after the waterfall... you step on somethinghard on the ground... as you look down... you seeglistening gold in colour. You bend down and pick itup... it is a keychain chained with keys...

(6) How many key /keys you see hanging on thekeychain?

(Choose a number ranging from 1 to 10)

You walk on and on... trying to find your way out...suddenly you see a castle.

(7) What is the condition of the castle?

(Old/new)

You enter the castle and saw a pool of murky waterwith shining jewels floating on it...

(8) Will you pick up the jewel?

(YES/NO)

Next to the murky pool... there's another pool... withclear water and money floating on it...

(9) Will you pick the money?

(YES/NO)

Walking to the end of the castle there is an exit...you proceed to walk out of the castle. Outside theexit, there is big garden, you see a box on theground.

(10) What is the size of the box?

(small/medium/big)

(11) What is the material of the box?

(cardboard/paper/wooden/metal)

There is a bridge in the garden some distance awayfrom the box,

(12) What is the bridge made of?

(metal/wooden/rattan)

Across the bridge, there is a horse.

(13) What is the colour of the horse?

(white/grey/brown/black)

(14) What is the horse doing?

(still and quiet/nibbling grass/running about)

OH NO!!! There is a tornado coming... some distancefrom the horse.

You have 3 options:

(i) run and hide in the box?

(ii) run and hide under the bridge?

(iii) run to the horse, ride on and gallop away?

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Here are the interpretations:

(1) The door:

opened door - you are a person who is willing to share

closed door - you are a person who is keeping thingsto yourself

(2) The table:

Round/oval - any friends that came along, you willaccept and trust them completely

Square/rectangle - you are a bit more choosy onfriends and only hangout with those whom you think areon the same frequency

Triangle - you are really very very picky aboutfriends and there are not many friends in your life

(3) Water in vase:

Empty - your life is not fulfilled

Half filled - what you want in your life is halffullfilled

Full - your life is completely fulfilled and good foryou! :)

(4) Material of vase:

glass/clay/porcelain - you are weak in your life andtends to be fragile

metal/plastic/wood - you are strong in your life

(5) Flow of waterfall:

0 - no sex drive at all

1 to 4 - low sex drive

5 - average sex drive

6 to 9 - high sex drive

10 - gone case!!! super high sex drive!!! Can't livewithout sex...

(6) Keys:

1 - you have one good friend in your life

2 to 5 - you have a few good friends in your life

6 to 10 - you have a lot good friends

(7) Castle:

Old - shows that your last relationship is not a goodone and is not memorable to you.

New - your last relationship is good and it's stillfresh in your heart.

(8) The jewel from the murky pool water:

YES - when your partner is around you, you will flirtaround with others.

NO - when your partner is around, you will stickaround with him/her most of the time.

(9) The money from the clear water pool:

YES - even when your partner is not around you, youwill still flirt around with others.

NO - even when your partner is not around, you willstill think of her and and will be loyal to her, notflirting around with others.

(10) The size of the box:

small - low ego

medium - average ego

big - high ego

(11) Material of the box (outlook of the box):

cardboard/paper/wooden(non-shining) - humble personality

metal - proud and stuck up personality

(12) The material of the bridge:

metal bridge - have very strong bond with your friends

wooden bridge - average bond with your friends

rattan bridge - you are not in good terms with yourfriends

(13) Colour of the horse:

white - your partner is pure and good in your heart.

grey/brown - your partner is only average in yourheart.

black - your partner doesn't seem to be good in yourheart and appears to be bad sign.

(14) Horse action:

still and quiet/nibbling grass - your partner is avery homely and humble person.

running about - your partner is a wild type person.

This the last but most important part of the test.

From how I ended the story... a tornado approaches...What are you going do?

There are only 3 options:

(i) run and hide in the box?

(ii) run and hide under the bridge?

(iii) run to the horse, ride on and gallop away?

What will you choose?Now, the above is signified by these things:

tornado - problems in your life

box - you

bridge - your friends

horse - your partner

(i) So if you choose the box, you keep your problemsto yourself whenever you are met with problems.

(ii) or if you choose the bridge, you will go to yourfriends whenever you met problems.

(iii) or lastly if you choose the horse, you seek your partner whenever you are met with problems.

*so... wat u guys think?? ada chun???... hehe!

Steamboat Test

2007-08-14T16:00:00.000+08:00

I'm Type B...wat bout u??

What kind of season will you enjoy eating steamboat?
A. Winter ( To Qn 2)
B. Summer (To Qn 5)
C. No matter what season (To Qn 1)

1. Do you like to have some sauce on your food?
A. Like (To Qn 2)
B. Don't like (To Qn 5)

2. Will you add eggs in your steamboat soup?
A. Yes (To Qn 3)
B. No (To Qn 6)

3. If you find a cigaratte butt in ur steamboat food, what will you do?
A. Quarrel with the boss and request another new one. (To Qn 13)
B. Stop eating and just pay and go. (To Qn 10)

4. What is the main point ypu will consider for choosing a steamboat restaurant?
A. Famous ( To Qn 7)
B. Reasonable prices ( To Qn 8)

5. If the steamboat restaurant has a new product of steamboat, will you dare to try?
A. Yes ( To Qn 6)
B. No ( To Qn 8)

6. How many people do you like to have your steamboat meal with?
A. 2-3 soulmates ( To Qn 9)
B. A big group of friends ( To Qn 3)

7. If the steamboat restaurant is very crowded, will you wait for a seat or go to another place?
A. Wait ( To Qn 11)
B. Proceed to another one ( To Qn 12)

8. What kind of food you like to add?
A. Noodle ( To Qn 9)
B. Vermicilli "Tang hoon" ( To Qn 7)

9. Will you drink the soup first or finish all the ingredients in the bowl then drink the soup?
A. Drink the soup first ( To Qn 10)
B. Eat the ingredients first ( To Qn 12)

10. If the boss tells you that you must add some SPECIAL and ODD ingredient in the soup to make it more delicious, will you dare to add?
A. Yes ( To Qn 17)
B. No ( To Qn 13)

11. Will you drink a cup of cooling water after you finish this steamy hot meal?
A. Yes ( To Qn 15)
B. No ( To Qn 14)

12. When you are having your steamboat, do you put in your meat first or put in later?
A. Put it once the steamboat start ( To Qn 15)
B. Later part then put ( To Qn 11)

13. Do you like to put all types of food at one go into the steamboat or have it put in one type by one type?
A. All ( To Qn 17)
B. One type at a time ( To Qn 16)

14. What drink will you like to go with your meal?
A. Oolong Tea ( To Qn 16)
B. Plum juice ( Type A)

15. Do you like to have steamboat at home or outside?
A. Home ( To Qn 16)
B. Outside ( To Qn 14)

16. Will you mind if another customer is standing behind you, waiting for you while you are finishing your food?
A. Mind ( Type B)
B. Don't mind ( Type C)

17. You are already very full with your meal but the boss offer to let you have another steamboat meal, will you eat it?
A. Yes (Type D)
B. No ( To Qn 16)

RESULTS....
TYPE A
Shy, a bit of an introvert. You are more stubborn and like to stay alone quietly at home. To you, talking to strangers is a hard thing so you have not much friends. But you will still have some soulmates. You need to treasure people who care and love you. You are more interested in your own matters, you will try your very best to achieve your target. But you can't do everything alone, and just depend on yourself, learn to open up and accept other opinions. Try to get along with different people.

TYPE B
You are a more active person, drawing a clear line between happiness and unhappiness. You are more quick-tempered. If you encounter things you like, you will do it without second thought. But once you encounter things that you hate, you will wish to get out of it as soon as possible. As you are a person of your own views, the friends you tend to have will be of the same pattern. But once good friends, you will understand them a lot and go all the way to help then. Friends are very dependent on you. As you are too emotional, you may make a storm out of a teacup with your friends. You must learn to do things in order and not give up easily. You can try making friends with those you don't think you can get along with, don't stick with the same category. This will make you more popular and charming.

TYPE C
Gentle like a lamb. You have a high level of adaptance power, easy to get along with people. Very popular in social life but seems that no one will talk bad about you. You hate to have conflicts with people so you always try to adapt to everyone. You treat every person differently. To look at the bright side, you adapt easily. But to look at the dark side, you lack of character, although you are one big nice guy but you lack of charm. On the surface, you have a lot of friends but once you have troubles, you lack of soulmates to help you around. You must try to express yourself more and be more decisive. In this way, you can understand yourself more.

TYPE D
You are stubborn, like to go in circles and don't get to the point. Once you decide on something, no one can change your mind. You are a good leader in a group so you win a lot of trust from your friends. But as you are too persistant on your own thinking, you neglect other people's suggestions therefore you can easily make enemies. Although it is good to maintain your own character but it doesn't mean you totally ignore other people's thoughts and feelings. You will let people think you are hard to handle and you will lose friends gradually and may end up alone. You need to learn to accept other people's opinion. This will make your social circle bigger and you will understand yourself better

AE86???

2007-08-09T13:15:00.000+08:00

wah...AE86 in pg wor...urm...but where's jay???

here... JAY 6111

( i think this car owner muz b gila Jay de...haha)

爱在哪里- lee hom

2007-08-05T19:15:00.000+08:00

在哪里

Zai na li

Where is it?

她到底在哪里

Ta dao di zai na li

Where is she?

终于知道我给的太少

Zhong yu zhi dao wo gei tai shao

I finally realized I gave too little

我的宝贝在哪里

Wo de bao bei zai na li

Where is my baby?

哦好可惜

oh hao ke xioh

such a pity

象是场梦而已

Xiang shi chang meng er yi

It’s nothing more than a dream

醒来以后发现

Xing lai li hou fa xian

When I wake up, I find that

她却走了

Ta que zou le

She has left

不会变不灰心

Bu hui bian bu hui xin

I can’t change my broken heart

告诉我爱在哪里

Gao su wo ai zai na li

Tell me “Where is the love?”

找过高找过低

Zhao guo gao zhao guo di

I searched high and low

爱在哪里

Ai zai na li

Where is the love?

一直寻寻觅觅

Yi zhi xun xun mi mi

I will always be searching for it

爱在哪里

Ai zai na li

Where is the love?

如果看到她

Ru guo kan dao ta

If you see her

说我还在这里

Shuo wo hai zai zhe li

Tell her that I’m over here

告诉我爱在哪里

Gao su wo ai zai na li

Tell me “Where is the love?”

找过东找过西

Zhao guo dong zhao guo xi

I searched east and west

爱在哪里

Ai zai na li

Where is the love?

仍然无声无息

Reng ran wu sheng wu xi

There is still no sight of sound or a breath

爱在哪里

Ai zai na li

Where is the love?

我好想念她能回来因为

Wo hao xiang nian ta neng hui lai yin wei

I show good thought that she will come back because

我好想念她能回

Wo hao xiang nian ta neng hui

I think that she will

(快点回)来因为

Kuai dian hui lai yin wei

Quickly come back because

爱在那里

Ai zai na li

Love is over here

Cashier new spelling... CA HIER

2007-07-31T09:36:00.000+08:00

Oops...where the "S" gone???

Kenot c clearly???

Nah...new spelling..lolz~!!

思念是一种病 - 张震岳

2007-07-29T17:22:00.000+08:00

~si nian shi yi chong bing~

思念是一种病

当你在穿山越岭的另一边

我在孤独的路上没有尽头

一辈子有多少的来不及

发现已经失去

最重要的东西

恍然大悟早已远去

为何总是在犯错之后

才肯相信错的是自己

他们说这就是人生

试著体会试著忍住眼泪

还是躲不开应该有的情绪

我不会奢求世界停止转动

我知道逃避一点都没有用

只是这段时间里尤其在夜里

还是会想起难忘的事情

我想我的思念是一种病

久久不能痊愈

当你在穿山越岭的另一边

我在孤独的路上没有尽头

时常感觉你在耳后的呼吸

却未曾感觉你在心口的鼻息

汲汲营营

忘记身边的人需要爱和关心

藉口总是拉远了距离

不知不觉无声无息

我们总是在抱怨事与愿违

却不愿意回头看看自己

想想自己到底做了甚黱蠢事情

也许是上帝给我一个试炼

只是这伤口需要花点时间

只是会想念过去的一切

那些人事物会离我远去

而我们终究也会远离

变成回忆

oh 思念是一种病

oh 思念是一种病一种病

多久没有说我爱你

多久没有拥抱你所爱的人

当这个世界不在那黱美好

只有爱可以让他更好

我相信一切都来得及

别管那些纷纷扰扰

别让不开心的事停下了脚步

就怕你不说就怕你不做

别让遗憾继续一切都来得及

Hoobastank - The Reason

2007-07-18T11:53:00.000+08:00

Hoobastank - The Reason

I’m not a perfect person.
There are many things I wish I didn’t do but I continue learning.
I never meant to do those things to you
and so I have to say before I go, that I just want you to know
I’ve found a reason for me, to change who I used to be
a reason to start over new, and the reason is you

I’m sorry that I hurt, its something I must live with everyday
and all the pain I put you through, I wish that I could take it all away
and be the one who catches all your tears, that’s why I need you to hear

I’m not a perfect person, I never meant to do those things to you
and so I have to say before I go that I just want you to know
I’ve found a reason for me, to change who I used to be
a reason to start over new, and the reason is you

I’ve found a reason to show a side of me you didn’t know
a reason for all that I do, and the reason is you

不能說的秘密- Jay Chou

2007-07-15T11:39:00.000+08:00

Thanks to Darren for sending over this song :) . Here's the lyrics;

冷咖啡离开了杯垫
As cold coffee leave the edge of the cup,

我忍住的情绪在很后面
the emotions I held in is at the far back.

拼命想挽回的从前
My desperate attempts to recover our "once upon a times",

在我脸上依旧清晰可见
like old times, is clearly and easily seen on my face.

最美的不是下雨天
The most beautiful is not the rainy day,

是曾与你躲过雨的屋檐(oh~~)
but the roof which once [I] sheltered from the rain with you

回忆的画面
The portraits of memories

在荡着秋千梦开始不甜
is swaying on the swing, the dream starts to lose its sweetness

你说把爱渐渐放下会走更远
You said to gradually let go of our love and we can go further

又何必去改变已错过的时间
There is a need to change for the time we already lost.

你用你的指尖阻止我说再见
You used your fingertips to stop me from saying goodbye

想象你在身边在完全失去之前
Imagine you next to me before I totally lose you

你说把爱渐渐放下会走更远
You said to gradually let go of our love and we can go further

或许命运的签只让我们遇见
Maybe the hand of fate only let us meet

只让我们相恋这一季的秋天
Only let us fall in love on the days of this autumn.

飘落后才发现这幸福的碎片
Only after it has landed do I realize, these broken pieces of happiness

要我怎么捡
How can I retrieve...

My Celebrity Look-alikes

2007-05-18T20:22:00.000+08:00

"Wonderful" Hokkien~!! Haha~!!

2007-05-09T20:59:00.000+08:00

Prince of Wales Island

I have been living in Penang all my life - also known as "The Prince of Wales Island", it is an island which was dominated by the Hokkien clans of the Chinese race. Most people here speaks Hokkien dialect. It was the colloquial communication medium in Penang .. and it has been like this for almost a century (ever since the Chinese came to Malaya to mine for tin ores).

But then, the Hokkien dialect in Penang did not sound a wee bit like those originated from China. It was entirely different from the original. Why ? Well, that's because Penang's a multi-cultural place and over the years, the Hokkien dialect somehow had evolved into something different. into almost like an entirely new language itself. Slangs and shits like that.

Just like what the Americans did to the original King's English.

So, in conjunction with our national day spirit, I would like to share some of the most commonly used Hokkien slang in Penang .. hope that it will promote better understanding about the unique cultural establishment here

"kan keh"

direct translation - 'fuck chicken'.

actual meaning - referring to someone who's cynical and selfish, not willing to take even the slightest risk of anything.

eg: "Leh ma ler ! Ah Seng kau giak kan keh ah .."

[translation: "Your mother ! Ah Seng is damn timid !"]

"kiong kan"

direct translation - it actually was a short form for "ki ho lang kan", which means, 'go get yourself fucked by someone'.

actual meaning - an exclamation that was used to vehemently protest against any disagreement or illogical statements.

eg: "Kiong kan lah ! lu sio kong lim peh be hiau si boh ??"

[translation : "Kiong kan lah ! You think you can fool me ??"]

"bak moy"

direct translation - 'pork porridge'

actual meaning - to undergo the complete and permanent cessation of all vital functions; i.e. die

eg: "Eh ! Lu lang cai boh ? Ray Charles bak moy liao !"

[translation : "Eh ! Did you guys know ? That Ray Charles is dead !"]

"loo siao"

direct translation - 'rub sperm'

actual meaning - to riot, to rebel, make trouble or go ballistic. Can be used as adjective, verb or noun.

eg: "That char bor, si peh loo siao, tiam tiam chueh soo "

[translation : "That woman, damn rebellious, always look for trouble.."]

"char siao"

direct translation - 'fried sperm'

actual meaning - to disturb or to vex someone

eg: "Mai char siao lah !"

[translation : "Don't disturb me !"]

"kuai lan"

direct translation - 'suave dick'

actual meaning - adjective to describe a very cheeky or obnoxious person.

eg: "That si ginna si peh kuai lan."

[translation : "That kid is damn obnoxious."]

"apong sin"

direct translation - 'pancake spirit' (pancake is also the secondary meaning for vagina)

actual meaning - a person who's fawning over any females and willing to do anything for them.

eg: "Ah Gu kau giak apong sin. Peng eu kio chut, boh eng. Char bor kio chut, eh poey"

[translation : "Ah Gu damn 'pancake spirit'. When his friends ask him out, always busy. But when girls ask him out, he'll literally fly out"]

"ciu cheng"

direct translation - 'hand gun'

actual meaning - an adjective to describe someone that is unskillfully clumsy, delinquent and fucked up.

eg: "Si tua pui, kau giak ciu cheng. Chia pun beh hiau park."

[translation : "That fat ass damn fucked up. Don't even know how to park a car"]

"tu lan" (also known as T.L.)

direct translation - 'pig's dick'

real meaning - hatefully dislike or angry; pissed.

eg: "Kua tiok ee eh bin pun tu lan."

[translation : "It pissed me off even by just a glance of his face."]

"kam lan"

direct translation - 'to fellate'

real meaning - an expression added into questions - to denote something ridiculous or defies logical understanding.

eg: "Lu choaa lu eh bor chut lai kam lan aa ??"

[translation : "Why the hell do you bring along your wife ??"]

"loh tee"

direct translation - 'bread' (comes from the malay word "roti")

real meaning - an adjective to describe a very slutty, chintzy and promiscuous female being. Highly derogatory.

eg: "Ah Kao eh chat loh si peh loh tee. Goh lui chap pek tau"

[translation : "Ah Kao's girl is a goddamn slut. Five cents for eighteen times"]

Of course there are more. These are just the common ones and is good enough for you to understand more about Penang.

It's a beautiful place.

My Masterpiece

2007-03-20T12:58:00.000+08:00

Ta..daa...da complete version...comment pls...hehe

品冠 - 一颗心交给谁

2007-02-21T19:51:00.000+08:00

~My Prince Charming~

Song Title : 一颗心交给谁

我的一颗心交给谁

交出去会不会后悔

爱情的边缘一次又一次徘徊

我的一颗心交给谁

交出去能不能收回

付出了感情只怕换来是伤悲

过去我为爱流过泪

现在已锁上我心扉

孤单和寂寞习惯陪我心沉睡

是否该抛开是与非

再爱一次也无所谓

自从遇见你仿佛已经忘了我

忘了我是谁

我的心应该交给谁

交给你会不会心碎

迷惑的眼睛已分不清对不对

一颗心交给谁

~My Seduction Style~

2007-02-20T01:35:00.000+08:00

Your Seduction Style: The Natural

You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen.

Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people.

You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find!

People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast.

What Is Your Seduction Style?

Job Interviewing Do's and Don'ts

2007-02-03T15:03:00.000+08:00

Here are the keys to successful job interviewing. Follow these simple rules and you should achieve success in this important phase of job-hunting.

Do take a practice run to the location where you are having the interview -- or be sure you know exactly where it is and how long it takes to get there.

Do your research and know the type of job interview you will be encountering. And do prepare and practice for the interview, but don't memorize or over-rehearse your answers.

Do dress the part for the job, the company, the industry. And do err on the side of conservatism.
Do plan to arrive about 10 minutes early. Late arrival for a job interview is never excusable. If you are running late, do phone the company.

Do greet the receptionist or assistant with courtesy and respect. This is where you make your first impression.

Don't chew gum during the interview.
If presented with a job application, do fill it out neatly, completely, and accurately.

Do bring extra resumes to the interview. (Even better, if you have a job skills portfolio, do bring that with you to the interview.)

Don't rely on your application or resume to do the selling for you. No matter how qualified you are for the position, you will need to sell yourself to the interviewer.

Do greet the interviewer(s) by title (Ms., Mr., Dr.) and last name if you are sure of the pronunciation. (If you're not sure, do ask the receptionist about the pronunciation before going into the interview.

Do shake hands firmly. Don't have a limp or clammy handshake!

Do wait until you are offered a chair before sitting. And do remember body language and posture: sit upright and look alert and interested at all times. Don't fidget or slouch.

Don't tell jokes during the interview.

Do make good eye contact with your interviewer(s).

Do show enthusiasm in the position and the company.

Don't smoke, even if the interviewer does and offers you a cigarette. And don't smoke beforehand so that you smell like smoke. And do brush your teeth, use mouthwash, or have a breath mint before the interview.

Do avoid using poor language, slang, and pause words (such as "like," "uh," and "um").

Don't be soft-spoken. A forceful voice projects confidence.

Do have a high confidence and energy level, but don't be overly aggressive.

Don't act as though you would take any job or are desperate for employment.

Do avoid controversial topics.

Don't say anything negative about former colleagues, supervisors, or employers.

Do make sure that your good points come across to the interviewer in a factual, sincere manner.

Don't ever lie. Answer questions truthfully, frankly and succinctly. And don't over-answer questions.

Do stress your achievements. And don't offer any negative information about yourself.

Don't answer questions with a simple "yes" or "no." Explain whenever possible. Describe those things about yourself that showcase your talents, skills, and determination. Give examples.

Do show off the research you have done on the company and industry when responding to questions.

Don't bring up or discuss personal issues or family problems.

Do remember that the interview is also an important time for you to evaluate the interviewer and the company she represents.

Don't respond to an unexpected question with an extended pause or by saying something like, "boy, that's a good question." And do repeat the question outloud or ask for the question to be repeated to give you a little more time to think about an answer. Also, a short pause before responding is okay.

Do always conduct yourself as if you are determined to get the job you are discussing. Never close the door on an opportunity until you are sure about it.

Don't answer cell phone calls during the interview, and do turn off (or set to silent ring) your cell phone and/or pager.

Do show what you can do for the company rather than what the company can do for you.

Don't inquire about salary, vacations, bonuses, retirement, or other benefits until after you've received an offer. Be prepared for a question about your salary requirements, but do try and delay salary talk until you have an offer.

Do ask intelligent questions about the job, company, or industry. Don't ever not ask any questions -- it shows a lack of interest.

Do close the interview by telling the interviewer(s) that you want the job and asking about the next step in the process. (Some experts even say you should close the interview by asking for the job.)

Do try and get business cards from each person you interviewed with -- or at least the correct spelling of their first and last names. And don't make assumptions about simple names -- was it Jon or John -- get the spelling.

Do immediately take down notes after the interview concludes so you don't forget crucial details.
Do write thank you letters within 24 hours to each person who interviewed you.

Overcoming Your Interview Nerves The Smartest Way

2007-02-03T14:54:00.000+08:00

Interviews can be quite daunting; especially if you have not been to one for some time or if the last one was a bad experience. But overcoming your interview nerves is really quite easy if you apply your intelligence and do some realistic preparation.
Interview nerves tend to be worse when you know you haven't prepared and have put off thinking about the very obvious questions they will ask. Have you ever noticed how much worse your nerves become when you repeatedly tell yourself "I'm going to fail this interview" or "I'm worried what they will ask me about"? Yet you can do some simple preparation very quickly
What every interviewer wants to know fall into just 4 key areas:

* Why are you here?
* What can you do for us?
* What sort of person are you?
* Can we afford you?

So at the very least you must prepare for these four areas of questioning.

If they ask you "Why did you apply for this job?" in other words "Why are you here?"
Your answer will be because you are interested in doing the job they described, you respect the company, are looking forward to the challenge and the chance to learn and develop new skills.

Next they will want to know what skills and experience you bring i.e. what you can do for them.

~ sweet&sour + bitter&spicy~

沒那麼簡單 Mei Na Me Jian Dan

暗示 An Shi

遗憾 Regrets

新不了情

NINE WORDS WOMEN USE

Let's Start From Here

對的人

走火入魔

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

A Cinderella Story...Happily Ever After

Come Back To Me

Are You A Good Cook?

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

My Heart's Feeling...

Correct Way of Cooking Instant Noodles

你不是真正的快乐-ni bu shi zhen zheng de kuai le

爱在不在

A Song Per Day

What is Your Love Language ?

The Law of the Seed.. Choo's version =P

是否- Whether

圍牆 - Wei Qiang -Wall

Can I Borrow $25?

祝我生日快乐

Can't Help Falling In Love

擦肩而過 | Ca Jian Er Guo | A Brief Encounter

温岚-傻瓜 | Sha Gua | Fool

Tattoo- Jordin Sparks

陶喆 - 沙滩

距离 - Ju Li (Gap)

牽牽牽牽手 - Kenji Wu

Xi Huan Yi Ge Ren Hao Lei - 喜欢一个人好累

那些女孩教我的事-品冠

I'm Yours - Jason Mraz

死心眼-彭佳慧

Xin Dong...

我以为 - Wo Yi Wei - I Thought

What Sign Is Your True Love?

Where is the LOVE??

Confirmed that I'm Virgo... =="

Ghost protections in hotel

Mr.Woody

This is what we call..."Orang Tamak Selalu Rugi"

Are You Romantic or Realistic?

I choose num2...wat bout u?

杨宗纬- 幸福的风

Should U Quit Your Job?

Are You A High Maintenance Woman?

Your Love Element Is Earth

周笔畅 - 一周年

Melody...

Which Haunted Room will You Choose?

会呼吸的痛-Fish Leong

Onion by Onion's Smell...

我和她 她和他

离开我

男人女人

Self reminder : A carrot, an egg, and a cup of Oolong tea...

浪花一朵朵-Redang oh Redang...

Jay - Dandelion’s Promise

Rainbow - Jay Chou

The Three Question Personality Test

What Japanese Smiley Are You?

What's Your Personality Type?

What Kind of Bride Will You Be?

What Does Your Birth Date Mean For Your Love Life?

Jie Tuo - Ah Mei *Nice song =)*

Now and Forever - Richard Marx

What's Your Love Profile?

Are You Depressed?

What's Your Dream Engagement Ring?

Your Love Life Secret

Lil' Sharing

Double Rainbow =D

(Doctors, you better read . . .)

Another nice song... =)

Artistic???

What is this???Any Idea??

LOOK UP YOUR BIRTHDATE AND SEE WHAT YOU ARE..

我和她她和他

Jie Tuo - Ah Mei Nice song =)

Personality Test...Give it a try